UJean-Claude Romand waba igama elibi emlandweni wezobulungiswa waseFrance nabezindaba. Icala lakhe, elimakwe uchungechunge lwenkohliso eklanywe ngokucophelela kanye nomphumela odabukisayo, luyaqhubeka luyisihloko sokuhlaziya nokucabangela.. Lesi sihloko sidingida kuzo zonke izici zokuphila kwakhe, kusukela emangeni awaqamba kuya emacaleni amabi awenzile kanye nemiphumela ephawula isiphetho sakhe phakade.
Indoda eqamba amanga
UJean-Claude Romand, cishe iminyaka engamashumi amabili, wayeyindoda eyakhohlisa wonke umuntu oseduze kwakhe. Wazalwa ngo-February 11, 1954 eLons-le-Saunier, eFrance, emndenini onesizotha, wayebonakala emiselwe impumelelo ngenxa yokusebenza kwakhe kahle ezifundweni zakhe kanye nobuntu bakhe obungenangqondo kodwa obuzinikele. Nokho, Okwaqala njengokushiywa okuncane kwaphenduka amanga amakhulu lokho kungamdonsela kwalasha.
Umsebenzi wezokwelapha wamanga
IsiRomand Wangena enyuvesi ukuze afundele ubudokotela, kodwa ngemva kokuphasa unyaka wokuqala, akazange aqhubeke.. Ukuze athethelele ukungasebenzi kwakhe, waqala ukukhohlisa izitifiketi zezokwelapha ezibonisa ukuthi wayephethwe i-lymphoma. Lesi sizaba samvumela ukuthi agcine isithunzi sokuba ngumfundi oselulama, okungamanga awawengeza iminyaka engu-12. Phakathi nalesi sikhathi, u-Romand akazange akhohlise abazali bakhe nabangane bakhe kuphela, kodwa waze wenza sengathi usezifundweni zezokwelapha, efunda imibhalo ukuze abe nezingxoxo ezizwakalayo nabafunda nabo ekilasini.
Umkhohlisi ku-WHO
Ngemva kokuphuma enyuvesi, uRomand akazange afune umsebenzi wangempela, kodwa kunalokho udale amanga amasha anemininingwane: wathi ungudokotela nomcwaningi odumile weWorld Health Organisation (WHO) eGeneva. Cishe iminyaka engamashumi amabili, waqhubeka nokuziphatha kwakhe, okwenza umndeni wakhe nabangane bakholwe ukuthi unikele impilo yakhe ocwaningweni oluhlobene nezifo zenhliziyo.
Ukuze aqinise amanga akhe, u-Romand wazinikela ekufundeni amapheshana kanye nezincwadi zangempela zezokwelapha ezivela ku-WHO ukuze afunde ulwazimagama lobuchwepheshe futhi ngaleyo ndlela akholiseke. Ngaphezu kwalokho, walingisa uhambo oluvamile lokusebenza kwamanye amazwe, kuyilapho empeleni lezo zinsuku echitha emahhotela aseduze anesabelomali noma emane ehamba ngemoto.
Ukusekelwa ngokwezimali kwamanga akho
Umbuzo ophakama ngokushesha uthi: uRomand wayisekela kanjani impilo yakhe yokunethezeka ngaphandle komsebenzi wangempela? Impendulo ilele ekukhwabaniseni embuthanweni wakho wangaphakathi. Uqinisekise umndeni wakhe nabangane, okuhlanganisa nabazali bakhe kanye nabasemzini wakhe, ukuthi batshale izindodla zemali ezimalini ezingelona iqiniso okuthiwa waziphatha ngenxa “yesikhundla” sakhe ku-WHO. Ngale mali uxhase izinga eliphezulu lokuphila: izindlu, izimoto ngisho nokufundisa izingane zakhe ezikoleni ezizimele.
Ingozi kaJanuwari 9, 1993
Impilo ka-Romand yaqala ukuwohloka ngasekupheleni kuka-1992, lapho izisulu zakhe eziningi ziqala ukufuna ukubuyiselwa imali yazo. Ebhekene nosongo oluseduze lokutholwa, uJean-Claude wenza isinqumo sokwenza uchungechunge lwezenzo ezimbi.
NgoJanuwari 9, 1993, Romand enze uchungechunge lokubulala okwashaqisa iFrance. Ngalolo suku wabulala umkakhe uFlorence emzini wabo, wamshaya ngephinikhodi. Kamuva waphakela izingane zakhe u-Antoine, 5, noCaroline, 7, isidlo sasekuseni ngaphambi kokuba azidubule ekhanda ngesikhathi zilele.
Isibhicongo sisaqhubeka
Ukwethuka akugcinanga lapho. Ngosuku olulandelayo, Romand Waya endlini yabazali bakhe, wababulala bobabili ngesibhamu sakhe., ngaphezu kokudubula inja yomndeni. Kamuva, wazama ukubulala isithandwa sakhe, kodwa wakwazi ukuphunyuka ngemva komzabalazo onzima.
Umzamo wokuzibulala nokubamba
Ukuze aqedele uhlelo lwakhe, Ushise umuzi wakhe ngemuva kokusabalalisa uphethiloli emakamelweni namaphilisi ngenhloso yokuzibulala. Nokho, izicishamlilo zamhlenga ngaphambi kokuba amalangabi amshise ngokuphelele. Wasinda emzamweni wokubulala, kodwa lapho ephaphama, waboshwa futhi waquliswa icala.
Imiphumela yezomthetho nengokwengqondo
Ukuqulwa kwecala likaJean-Claude Romand kwaqala ngoJuni 1996 futhi kwaheha ukusabalala kwabezindaba. Ugwetshwe udilikajele ngamacala amahlanu okubulala, mancane amathuba okuthi angabuyekezwa. Phakathi nenqubo yokwahlulela, Odokotela bengqondo bathole ukuthi u-Romand une-narcissistic personality disorder, okusikhanyisela ngekhono lakhe lokulondoloza i-facade eyinkimbinkimbi kangaka cishe iminyaka engamashumi amabili.
Leli cala liphinde lagqugquzela imisebenzi eminingi yobuciko, njengencwadi ethengiswa kakhulu ethi "The Adversary" ka-Emmanuel Carrère, ehlaziya izingqimba zamanga zika-Romand kanye nomthelela wazo ngokomzwelo kulabo abasondelene naye. Lo msebenzi wenziwa ifilimu ngo-2002.
Icala likaJean-Claude Romand alisona nje isibonelo esijabulisayo sokuthi i-narcissism namanga kungaholela ekubhujisweni, kodwa futhi. kuphakamisa imibuzo ejulile ngemvelo yomuntu. Yini eholela umuntu ukuba akhe ukuphila okusekelwe ngokuphelele emangeni? Umuntu angahamba ibanga elingakanani ukuze alondoloze ukukhohlisa?
URomand uchithe iminyaka engaphezu kwengu-26 ejele ngaphambi kokukhululwa ngoshwele ngo-2019.. Njengamanje uhlala yedwa endlini yenkosi yaseBenedictine, kude namehlo omphakathi, kodwa indaba yakhe isaqhubeka nokuzwakala njengesikhumbuzo esishaqisayo samandla abhubhisayo amanga.
Kunoma yikuphi ukubambisana, ukwethembeka nobuqotho kubalulekile ekwakheni ubudlelwano nokwethembana. Usizi lukaRomand luyisikhumbuzo semiphumela elimazayo engavela lapho lezi zimfanelo zilahlwa.