Ukufinyelela iphuzu eliphakathi neliphakathi empilweni yakho akukhona nje ukuwela ibhokisi elisekhalendeni noma ukubhekana nenkinga edumile yeminyaka yobudala. Eqinisweni, kuyinto isikhathi esivelele emsebenzini yanoma yimuphi umuntu, lapho umthwalo wezinto ezisithinta uba nzima ngokwanele ukusinika ukuzinza, kodwa ucebile ngokwanele ukusikhuthaza ukuba siqhubekele phambili ngokukhanya okuhlukile.
Ukufinyelela kuleli qophelo kuhilela ukuzibuka esibukweni nokuqaphela ukuthi yonke imibimbi kanye nayo yonke inxeba, empeleni, izindebe ezivela ezimpini eziwiniwe kanye nezifundo ezifundwe. Kuyisigaba lapho ukuphuthuma kobusha kuguquka kube ukuzola okucabangayo, okusivumela ukuthi sazise okubaluleke ngempela futhi silahle lokho okungasafaneleki emithwalweni yethu yemizwa.
Ubuciko bokuzibeka phambili kanye nokubaluleka kokuzazi wena
Sivame ukuchitha ingxenye yokuqala yokuphila kwethu sizama ukulingana nezinhlobo zabanye abantu, kodwa lapho sifinyelela eminyakeni engamashumi amahlanu, siyaqaphela ukuthi umuntu oyisisekelo kakhulu Endleleni yethu, siyithi ngokwethu. Lokhu akuphathelene nobugovu, kodwa kuyisidingo esibalulekile: uma singazamukeli futhi singazithandi njengoba nje sinjalo, kuba nzima ukunikeza abanye ukwesekwa kwangempela nokunempilo.
Lesi sikhathi silungele kakhulu isifundo esijulile sobunikazi bethuNgokulalela lelo zwi langaphakathi ngezinye izikhathi elithuliswa umsindo wokuphila kwansuku zonke, nangokwamukela ubuthakathaka bethu nokuthuthukisa amandla ethu, sifinyelela ubuqiniso obusikhulula ekulindelweni kwangaphandle, okusivumela ukuba siphile ngaphandle kwezihlungi nangokwethembeka okunonya kodwa okuphulukisayo.
Umsebenzi, impumelelo, kanye neqiniso lemali
Uma sihlaziya izimpilo zethu zokusebenza, siyaqaphela ukuthi ukukhetha umsebenzi kungenye yezinqumo ezithinta kakhulu injabulo yethu. Ukuchitha ingxenye yesithathu yempilo yethu sisebenza kusho ukuthi ukwenza lokho esikuthandayo Yiyona ndlela kuphela yokuvimbela uMsombuluko ukuthi uzizwe njengesijeziso. Imali, yize inikeza ukuphepha nokuzinza, imane nje iyisici; akuyona umthombo wokwaneliseka, kodwa iyindlela yokwenza impilo ibe lula.
Ngokuphathelene nempumelelo, kubalulekile ukuphula inganekwane yomphakathi. Ngokuvamile, labo ababonakala bephumelela ngaphandle basuke bengenalutho ngaphakathi. Ukunqoba kwangempela kusekukhonzeni kwabanye futhi ube wusizo, uqonde ukuthi ukwehluleka akuyona into ephambene nempumelelo, kodwa kuyisinyathelo esidingekayo ukuze uyifinyelele. Ngezinye izikhathi, ukushaywa okunzima kakhulu yikona okusishukumisela ukuba sifinyelele ukunqoba okubaluleke kakhulu.
Amandla entukuthelo nokuzibophezela emphakathini
Akuzona zonke izizindlo ezicabangayo lapho uneminyaka engamashumi amahlanu; ezinye zizalwa ngomlilo. Kunezindlela eziphawulwe... ubushoshovu kanye nomzabalazo Ngokumelene nokungabi nabulungisa kwezenhlalo, lapho intukuthelo yokuqala ngobudlova noma ukungalingani iguqulwa ibe amandla ahlangene angakwazi ukushintsha imithetho kanye nezingqondo. Lawa mandla yiwo asivumela ukuthi siphule ukuthula okuphoqelelwe futhi silwe nokucwaswa, ikakhulukazi ezindabeni eziyinkimbinkimbi njengamalungelo ocansi nawokuzala.
Okuhlangenwe nakho kufundisa ukuthi umthelela wangempela udinga isu elisekelwe ekuqhubekeniUkungabonakali kobandlululo kanye nokuphishekela ukususwa kobugebenga kwamalungelo ayisisekelo kuyizinto ezibalulekile zobushoshovu. Kodwa-ke, indlela yesishoshovu ihilela nokwazi ukuthi singaphumula kanjani futhi siphilise kanjani emphakathini, siqaphela ukuthi amandla ahlangene ayithuluzi eliphumelela kakhulu lokuguqula ukukhungatheka kube ushintsho olubonakalayo ezizukulwaneni ezizayo.
Izibopho ezingokomzwelo, umndeni, nokufunda ekuhluphekeni kwenhliziyo
Ezweni lemizwa, uthando nokuphuka kwenhliziyo kuziveza njengezinhlangothi ezimbili zohlamvu lwemali olufanayo, zinamandla anele okwakha kabusha noma ukubhubhisa impilo yonke. Kuleli qophelo, kusobala ukuthi Azikho izindlela zomlingo Futhi azikho izindlela zokupheka inhliziyo; uthando luyafika futhi lusibambe ngaphandle kwesixwayiso, futhi ukuluphatha kudinga ukuvuthwa futhi, ngaphezu kwakho konke, inhlonipho ngesithunzi sakho, ikakhulukazi ubudlelwano nomehluko weminyaka lapho kuvela khona izinselele ezithile.
Ngokuphathelene nokuba ngumzali, kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi izingane azilona ikhambi lezinkinga ezingokomzwelo. Nakuba ziletha injabulo enkulu, Akufanele kube yisikhungo Uhlobo oluphelele lokuba khona kwethu, noma ikhambi lezinkinga zobudlelwano. Uthando lwezingane kufanele lube nemibandela, kodwa luhlale luhlonipha ukuzimela kwazo futhi luqonde ukuthi inhloso yazo iwukukhula nokwakha indlela yazo, kuyilapho siziqapha sikude ngothando.
Ukuphatha ukwesaba nokwamukela ukuphela
Esinye sezifundo ezinkulu zokuvuthwa ukufunda ukukhetha mayelana nezimpi esizikhethayo. Akunamsebenzi ukuchitha amandla ezimpikiswaneni ezingenamsebenzi noma kubantu abangangezi inani; ngezinye izikhathi, ukuvumelana ngisho noma bephambukile Kuwukunqoba okuhlakaniphe kakhulu ukulondoloza ukuthula kwengqondo yethu.
Ngokufanayo, kubalulekile ukunqoba ukwesaba kwethu ukwesaba uqobo. Ukuqaphela ukuthi siyizidalwa zesikhashana nokuthi ukufa kuwukuphela kwento eqinisekile kusisiza, ngokumangalisayo, ukuba phila ngamandla amakhuluUkwamukela ifilosofi ethi "Carpe Diem" kusenza sikwazi ukubeka phambili okuhlangenwe nakho kunezinto esinazo futhi sigxile ekushiyeni inkumbulo enhle ngezenzo zethu zansuku zonke.
Ukufinyelela lesi sinyathelo esibalulekile kuyisimemo sokugubha inkululeko yokuba yilokho esikukhethile ukuba yikho, sihlanganisa ukuhlakanipha kwesikhathi esidlule nethemba elisha ngekusasa. Ngokwamukela ubuqiniso bethu nokwazisa konke ukuxhumana kanye nesifundo ngasinye esisifundile, sizilungiselela isigaba sesibili esigcwele amathuba, lapho ukugcwaliseka kufezwa khona ngokujabulela uhambo nokuba ukukhanya kwabanye.