Akulula ukuba nemicabango emihle ngaso sonke isikhathi; empeleni, ngezinye izikhathi, kuye ngezimo zokuphila, kungabonakala kungenakwenzeka nhlobo… kodwa akunjalo. Unguwe inkosi yemicabango yakho Futhi ungakhetha ukuba nemicabango emihle noma imicabango engathandeki kangako. Uma ukhetha indlela yokuqala uzoba nokuphila okungcono kakhulu kunalokho uma ukhetha okukhethwa kukho kwesibili ... ukhetha!
Impilo iyisipho futhi njalo lapho kuphuma ilanga nelanga liphuma ekuseni, kuyithuba elisha lokwenza izinto kangcono kunangezolo. Ungaphila impilo ngendlela oyikhethayo futhi uyinikeze incazelo engcono kakhulu kuwe. NgobaYize impilo ingabonakala inzima kwesinye isikhathi, kuyenzeka uzuze injabulo uma wazi ukuthi imicabango yakho kufanele ibe njani.
Ukuba nempilo enhle kusho ukuba nemicabango emihle nemibono emihle ezokusiza ukuthi ubeke ukumamatheka ebusweni bakho futhi injabulo yakho usakaze kwabanye. Ngalesi sizathu, ngezansi sizokunikeza imicabango emihle ukuze ukwazi ukuyifaka engqondweni yakho nokuthi ushintshe umbono wempilo yakho, ube ngcono ... Uma ungafuni ukuthi bazikhohlwe, kufanele uzibhale phansi kwenye indawo bese uhamba nazo.
Imicabango emnandi nsuku zonke
Ukuhlanganisa ukuzindla okujulile enkambisweni yethu yansuku zonke akuyona nje indlela yokuzivocavoca ubuhle, kodwa kuyithuluzi ukuzithuthukisaNgezansi, sethula imicabango ehlukahlukene ekhuthaza isenzo, uthando, kanye nokuqina:
- Amadoda angakwazi ukuzicabangela awacabangi nhlobo. - Oscar Wilde
- Kufanele udanse sengathi akekho obukele. Thanda sengathi awusoze walimala, cula sengathi akekho olalele, phila sengathi izulu lisemhlabeni. UWilliam W. Purkey.
- Umhlaba udinga abaphuphi nabenzi. Kodwa ngaphezu kwakho konke, umhlaba udinga abaphuphi abaphuphayo. Sarah Breathnach.
- Lalela "okungafanele." Lalela "okungafanele." Lalela "akunakwenzeka." Lalela "ngeke." Lalela "awusoze." Manje lalela eduze kwami. Noma yini ingenzeka. Noma yini ingaba khona. Shel Silverstein.
- Yilabo kuphela abazibeka engcupheni yokuya kude kakhulu abangathola ukuthi bangahamba ibanga elingakanani.
- Ukuqonda kuyisinyathelo sokuqala ekwamukelweni futhi kungokwamukelwa kuphela lapho kungalulama khona. UJK Rowling.
- Bathi inhlanhla ihambisana nokujuluka kwakho. Uma ujuluka kakhulu, uthola inhlanhla enkulu. - Ray Kroc
- Injabulo ayitholakali ngokungabi nezinkinga, kodwa ngokubhekana nazo. USteve Maraboli
- Impilo uhlobo lwebhayisikili. Uma ufuna ukugcina ibhalansi yakho, hamba phambili. U-Albert Einstein
- Ngokuqhamuka ndawo, sifinyelela iziqongo eziphakeme kakhulu zosizi. IGroucho marx
- Ukube wayelandela imithetho ebekiwe, wayezobanga yize. UMarilyn monroe
- Siyilokho esikwenzayo kaninginingi. Ukugqama, ngakho-ke, akusona isenzo, kepha umkhuba. U-Aristotle.
- Sinomlutha wemicabango yethu. Ngeke siguqule lutho uma singaguquli imicabango yethu. USantosh Kalwar
- Okuhlaba umxhwele futhi okuhle akukuhle ngaso sonke isikhathi, kepha okuhle kuhle njalo kuhle. UNinon de L'Enclos
- Konke ongakucabanga kungokoqobo. UPablo Picasso
- Uthando ukuphela kwempendulo enempilo neyanelisayo enkingeni yokuba khona komuntu. U-Erich fromm
- Abanye abantu, noma ngabe baneminyaka emingaki, abalokothi balahlekelwe ubuhle babo, bavele babususe ebusweni babo buye ezinhliziyweni zabo. UMartin Buxbaum
- Bala iminyaka yakho ngabangani bakho, hhayi ngeminyaka. Bala impilo yakho ngokumomotheka, hhayi ngezinyembezi. - UJohn Lennon
- Ingqondo ezimele ayisekelwe kulokho okucabangayo, kodwa endleleni ocabanga ngayo. - UChristopher Hitchens
- Impilo ingashintsha, kodwa ukukhula kuyinto ongayikhetha. Hlakanipha ngezinketho zakho. —Karen Kaiser Clark
- Ukwenza amaphutha empilweni akugcini nje ngokuba yinto ehloniphekile, kodwa futhi kuyasiza kakhulu kunokungenzi lutho. - George Bernard Shaw
- Akukhona ukuthi ngihlulekile, ngivele ngangena ezindleleni ezingalungile eziyi-5000. UThomas edison
- Noma yini noma umuntu ongakuletheli impilo mncane kakhulu kuwe. UDavid whyte
- Izinhliziyo zethu zigcwele ubuhle amehlo ethu angasoze abubona. UGeorge W. Russell
- Impilo akuyona eyokuthola wena. Impilo izama ukuzidala.-UGeorge Bernard Shaw
- Ukuthandwa ngokujulile ngumuntu kukunikeza amandla, kanti ukuthanda umuntu ngokujulile kukunika isibindi. I-Lao Tzu
- Indlala yothando kunzima kakhulu ukuqeda kunendlala yesinkwa. Umama Teresa waseCalcutta
- Shintsha umdlalo wakho wokuzilibazisa ube ngumsebenzi wakho futhi ngeke uphinde usebenze. UConfucius
- Kukhona ukwehluleka kwabantu abadela lapho sebeseduze nokuphumelela. UThomas Edison
- Hlela ngamabomu uma nje udinga, kepha lapho kufanele uthathe isinyathelo, yeka ukucabanga bese uthatha isinqumo. UNapoleon
- Amagama ethu anqunyelwe kulokho esikucabangayo. UJonathan Price
- Uthando akuwona umbuzo wokuthi kwenzakalani empilweni. Umbuzo walokho okwenzeka enhliziyweni yakho. Ken okhiye
- Inhliziyo ejabulayo ingumphumela ongenakugwemeka wenhliziyo evutha uthando. Umama Teresa waseCalcutta
- Ukwaneliseka kulele emizameni, hhayi empumelelweni, umzamo ophelele uwukunqoba okuphelele. Mahatma Gandhi
- Kumelwe siyeke impilo esiyihlelile; yilapho kuphela lapho singayamukela khona impilo esilindele. - Joseph Campbell
- Yikho kanye ithuba lokufeza iphupho elenza impilo ibe mnandi. UPaulo Coelho
- Ukububula kungumoya futhi kuya emoyeni, izinyembezi zingamanzi bese ziya olwandle; Kodwa ake ungitshele, uma uthando lufa, luyaphi uthando? UGustavo Adolfo Bequer
- Ungapheli amandla, ngicela ungavumi, noma kubanda amakhaza, noma uvalo lungakuluma, noma liphuma ilanga nomoya uthule. Kusenomlilo emphefumulweni wakho, kusekhona ukuphila emaphusheni akho. UMario Benedetti
- Uma wenza into enhle kakhulu futhi kungekho muntu oyibonayo, ungakhathazeki. Ukuphuma kwelanga kuyinto enhle ephuma nsuku zonke, futhi abantu abaningi abakuboni ngoba belele. - UJohn Lennon
- Sihlala sibona okubi kakhulu kithi, ingxenye esengozini kakhulu kithi. Sidinga umuntu oza kithi azositshela ukuthi asilungile. Sidinga umuntu esimethembayo. UDavid levithan
I-Psychology Yokucabanga Nokuzindla Okuhle
Emkhakheni we I-Psychology EnhleKuphikiswana ngokuthi imicabango emihle isebenza njengenjini yangempela yoshintsho. Akukhona ukunganaki ubuhlungu, kodwa ukusebenzisa ingqondo ukudala ukuguqulwa komuntu siquUma sishintsha indaba yethu yangaphakathi, sishintsha indlela esisebenzisana ngayo nomhlaba, ngakho-ke, imiphumela esiyitholayo.
Ukuzindla kuyindlela eya ekukhanyiselweni. Ngokuma kancane ukuze sicabangele amazwi ahlakaniphile, sivuselela izindawo zobuchopho ezisivumela ukuthi ukubeka impilo endaweni efanele futhi siwazise izinto zansuku zonke. Le nqubo yokuzihlola isisiza ukuthi sipholise amanxeba futhi sithole izimpendulo esezikhona ngaphakathi kithi kodwa umsindo wokuphila kwansuku zonke uvame ukusifihla.
Imisho emifushane mayelana nokuphila okufanele ucabange ngakho futhi ukufunde
Ngezinye izikhathi, ukufinyeza kuyindlela enamandla kakhulu yokuveza iqiniso. imishwana emifushane Lezi yizinhlayiya zokuhlakanipha esingazibamba ngekhanda futhi sizisebenzise ngokushesha. Nansi inqwaba yemicabango emfushane kodwa ejulile:
- Ungalitholi iphutha, thola ikhambiIndlela egxile esixazululweni, hhayi egxile ekukhonondeni.
- Akuyena umuntu onokuncane ompofu, kodwa yilowo ofisa okuningi.Isifundo mayelana nokuhlukana nokubonga.
- Ungambulala umphuphi, kodwa hhayi iphupho.Ukungafi kwemibono nezifiso.
- Gxila kulokho ofuna ukuya khona, hhayi kulokho okwesabayo.Amandla okugxila okuhle.
- Ushintsho luwumthetho wokuphilaUkwamukela ukungaguquguquki kuyisihluthulelo sokuthula kwangaphakathi.
- Ungalokothi wehlise imigomo yakho, yandisa imizamo yakhoIsiyalo njengebhuloho eliyisa empumelelweni.
- Okukhulu kuyeza: Gcina ithemba njengomthombo obalulekile.
- Yazisa zonke izinyatheloUkubaluleka kwenqubo ngaphezu komphumela wokugcina.
- Akusikho lokho okufezayo, yilokho okunqobile.Inani langempela lisekukwazini ukuqina.
- Ufanelwe yiphupho lakhoUkuqondana phakathi kwesifiso nesenzo esidingekayo ukuze sifezeke.
Ukuhamba Kwesikhathi Nokuhlakanipha Kokuphila
Isikhathi siwumthombo obaluleke kakhulu futhi, ngokuvamile, siwukuphathwa kabi kakhulu. Ukucabanga ngalokho ukuhamba kwesikhathi Kusenza siqaphele ubufushane bokuba khona kwethu futhi kusishukumisele ukuba siphile ngokugcwele. ukuba khona kanye nenhloso.
Uma sibheka ukuthi iminyaka esinayo yilena esingasenayo, kusimema ukuthi singachithi izimpilo zethu siphila ezomunye umuntu. ubusha Akuyona isigaba sebhayoloji, kodwa isimo sengqondo esihlala siphila uma nje siqhubeka nokukhulisa amaphupho ethu. Njengoba uPicasso esho kahle, kuthatha isikhathi eside ukuba musha.
Imicabango Ngokuphatha Isikhathi Namanje
- Imanje yilona kuphela ukuphepha.Nakuba isikhathi esidlule sisibekela imingcele kanti isikhathi esizayo sisesabisa, isikhathi samanje kuphela lapho singenza khona okuthile.
- Ungachithi isikhathiUkukhumbula ukuthi yonke iminithi ayinakushintshwa kusishukumisela ukuba sibeke phambili okubaluleke ngempela: abantu kanye nezinto esizithandayo.
- Ukuguga njengomsebenzi wobucikoUkuguga akudingeki kube inqubo yokuwohloka, kodwa kunalokho kube ukuqongelela ukuhlakanipha nokuthula.
- Nakekela imizuzuUma sigxila ekhwalithini yesikhathi ngasinye esincane, amahora ayanakekela wona.
Ukufuna Injabulo Nenhlalakahle Engokomzwelo
Injabulo akuyona umgomo wokugcina noma indawo okufanele kufinyelelwe kuyo, kodwa indlela yokuhambaSivame ukwenza iphutha lokukholelwa ukuthi sizojabula “lapho” kwenzeka okuthile, sikhohlwe ukuthi injabulo iyisinqumo somuntu siqu esihlakulelwa esikhathini samanje.
Ukuze ufinyelele isimo sokwaneliseka, kubalulekile ukulinganisela injabulo nokwamukela usizi; ngaphandle kwalo mehluko, injabulo ibingalahlekelwa incazelo yayo. Ukwaneliseka kweqiniso kulele umzamo nokukhulahhayi nje ekufezeni izinto ezibonakalayo.
Izihluthulelo Zokuphila Okujabulisayo
- Ubulula NokubongaUkuthola injabulo ezintweni ezincane nokubonga ngalokho esivele sinakho kuyindlela esheshayo eya ekuthuleni.
- Inhloso NezinhlosoUkuxhumanisa izimpilo zethu nomgomo omuhle kukhulula amandla futhi kukhuthaze ithemba.
- Ubudlelwano BangempelaUbungane buphinda kabili injabulo futhi bunciphise usizi ngesigamu. Ukuzihlanganisa nabantu abahle kubalulekile.
- Ukwamukela UkungapheleliUkujabula akusho ukuthi konke kuphelele, kodwa kunalokho unquma ukubona ngale kokungapheleli.
Uthando Njenge-Axis Yokuguqula Ubukhona
Uthando, kuzo zonke izici zalo—ukuzithanda, uthando lobuzalwane, uthando lobuzalwane, nothando lothando—luyimpendulo egculisayo kuphela enkingeni yokuba khona komuntu. Akuyona nje imizwa, kodwa amandla okushayela lokho kusinika isibindi sokubhekana nobunzima.
El uthando lwakho Kuyisiqalo sothando oluhlala isikhathi eside. Ngaphandle kwesisekelo sokuzihlonipha nokuzithanda, kunzima ukuthanda abanye ngendlela enempilo. Uthando lweqiniso alufuni impahla, kodwa luyapha. libertad.
Ukuzindla Ngezibopho Zemizwa
- Ukuthanda nokuthandwaLokhu kubili kuyindlela ephelele yokuba ngumuntu. Uthando olwamukelwe lusinika amandla, uthando olunikeziwe lusinika isibindi.
- Ukwethembeka othandweniKungcono ukuzondwa ngenxa yalokho oyikho kunokuthandwa ngenxa yemaski.
- Ukuthethelela njengesenzo sothandoUkuthethelela kuyisenzo sobungcweti esikhulula hhayi omunye umuntu kuphela, kodwa ikakhulukazi lowo othethelelayo.
Ukuya Empilweni Enempilo: Ingqondo Nomzimba Kuyalinganisela
Asikwazi ukulangazelela ingqondo ekhaliphile emzimbeni onganakwa. impilo enempilo Kuqala ngaphakathi, kuhlanganisa imikhuba yokucabanga kanye nesimo sengqondo sokuhlonipha imizimba yethu. Umzimba uwukuphela kwendawo esinayo yokuhlala; ukuwuphatha njengethempeli kuyindaba yokusinda kanye nenhlalakahle.
Impilo ayikona nje ukungabikho kwezifo, kodwa isimo ibhalansi epheleleLokhu kuhilela ukulala ngokwanele, ukudla ukudla okuhlakaniphile, nokuhlala usebenza ngokomzimba, kodwa ngaphezu kwakho konke, ukulawula ukucindezeleka kanye nemizwa engemihle.
Ukuhlakanipha Okusetshenzisiwe: Yini Echaza Abantu Abahlakaniphile?
Sivame ukudidanisa ukuhlakanipha nokuhlakanipha. Nakuba umuntu ohlakaniphile enolwazi, Umuntu ohlakaniphile uyazi ukuthi angawasebenzisa kanjani ngomusa, ukuthobeka, kanye nokulinganisela. Umuntu ohlakaniphile akafuni ukunqoba abanye, kodwa ufuna ukuzinqoba.
Umuntu ohlakaniphile uhlukaniswa yikhono lakhe lokulalela. Uyazi ukuthi kufanele athule nini nokuthi kufanele akhulume nini ukuze andise inani. Umgomo wakhe ukukhula okuqhubekayo, ukuqonda ukuthi ukuthobeka kuyindlela yokufinyelela ekufundeni okuqhubekayo. Labo abakholelwa ukuthi bathole konke, ngokumangalisayo, bayayeka ukuthuthuka.
Izimfanelo Zokuhlakanipha Komuntu
- Ukulinganisela KwemizwaIkhono lokungathathwa yintukuthelo, umona, noma ukuqhosha.
- Ubuqotho kanye nesizotha: Ukuziveza ngeqiniso ngaphandle kokuphoqa omunye umuntu.
- Umbono OngokoqoboAkakhali ngomoya noma alinde ngokunganaki ukuthi ushintshe; ulungisa amaseyili akhe ukuze aqhubeke nokuhamba.
- Uzwela Olujulile: Phatha wonke umuntu ngokulinganayo, kungakhathaliseki isimo sakhe noma isimo sakhe.
Indlela Yokunqoba Ubunzima Nokwehluleka
Impilo iveza iziphepho ngokungenakugwenywa. Isihluthulelo akukhona ukugwema imvula, kodwa funda ukudansa emvuleniUbuhlungu abunakugwenywa, kodwa ukuhlupheka kuyinto ongayikhetha; kuncike endleleni esiwachaza ngayo amaqiniso.
Ukwehluleka akufanele kubhekwe njengokuphela, kodwa njengokuphela isithako sempumeleloIphutha ngalinye liyimbewu yokufunda. Njengoba uThomas Edison asho ngokuhlakanipha, akazange ahluleke izikhathi eziyinkulungwane, kodwa kunalokho wathola izindlela eziyinkulungwane zokungenzi okuthile. Ukuqina yikhono lokuvuka njalo lapho siwile.
Amasu Okuguqula Ubuhlungu Bube Amandla
- Ukushintsha Umbono: Bheka inkinga hhayi njengodonga, kodwa njengenselele ezosiphoqa ukuba sikhule.
- Isenzo NjengekhambiEsikhundleni sokuhlaziya iphutha ngokungapheli, funa ikhambi elisheshayo.
- Ukwamukelwa Okukhulu: Qonda ukuthi ezinye izinto azilawulwa yithi futhi sigxile kulokho esingakushintsha.
- Ukusekelwa komphakathi: Ukuqaphela ukuthi sidinga abanye ukuqinisekisa ubuthakathaka bethu futhi bazizwe beqondakala.
Ukubaluleka Kwemfundo Nokuzazi
Imfundo iwukuhamba usuka ebumnyameni uye ekukhanyeni. Akukhona nje ukuqoqa amaqiniso enkumbulweni, kodwa mayelana nokuthuthukisa ukucabanga okujulile kanye nekhono lokucabanga ngokujulile. UkuzibonakalisaLabo abafunda ngaphandle kokuzindla bachitha amandla abo.
El ukuzazi Kuyindlela ephakeme kakhulu yokukhanyiselwa. Ukwazi ukuthi singobani, ukuthi izithunzi zethu ziyini, nokuthi amakhono ethu ayini kusenza siphile ngendlela engokoqobo. Inkululeko yangempela itholakala ekubeni ngabaphathi bezimpilo zethu, ngaphandle kokuvumela okulindelwe abanye kulawule indlela yethu.
Ukugcina ingqondo evulekile emibonweni emisha kubalulekile, ngoba ingqondo ekhula ayiphinde ibuyele ebukhulu bayo bokuqala. Ilukuluku lingamandla agcina ubuhlakani buphila futhi asivikele ekumisweni kwengqondo.
Ukuhlakulela imicabango emihle nokuzindla okujulile kuwumkhuba oguqula iqiniso. Ngokuhlanganisa ukuhlakanipha kwabacabangi abakhulu nokuhlangenwe nakho kwethu, sakha imephu yangaphakathi esiqondisa ekuphileni okugcwele, okuqaphelayo, nokuvumelanayo. Injabulo akuyona indaba yengozi, kodwa kunalokho umphumela wengqondo eqeqeshwe ukubonga, isenzo, kanye nekhono lokuthanda ngaphandle kwemibandela.