Imisho emifushane engaphezu kuka-150 okufanele uyicabange, uyicabange futhi uyabelane ngayo

I-Las imishwana emifushane Ziyimibhalo emifushane yamagama ambalwa ekwazi ukufinyeza imibono emikhulu. Ngomugqa owodwa nje zingasitshela ngakho uthando, ukuphila, isisusa, ukunqobaUbuhle, ubungani, umndeni, injabulo, noma ngisho nalezo zikhathi ezinzima esidlula kuzo sonke. Zisebenza njenge amaphilisi okuhlakanipha esingakufunda ngemizuzwana futhi sikukhumbule impilo yethu yonke.

Kuyo yonke le ndatshana uzothola iqoqo elibanzi kakhulu le- imishwana emifushane yokuzindla nokucabangaixutshwe nezinye ezithambile, ezihlekisayo, ezijulile, noma ezikhuthazayo. Eziningi zivela kubantu abakhulu kwefilosofi, ezincwadini, kwezengqondo, noma kumafilimu; ezinye azinamagama, kodwa zinamandla angaphansi. Zonke zingakusiza ukuthi Bona impilo yakho ngombono ohlukileukuphakamisa umoya womunye umuntu noma ukumane umomotheke kumuntu omthandayo.

Ngaphezu kwalokho, lawa magama afanele ukusetshenziswa njenge isimo se-whatsapp, shicilela ku- Tweetukuhambisana nesithombe ku I-Instagram noma i-FacebookBhala isizinikezelo esikhethekile noma usisebenzise njengesikhumbuzo sansuku zonke kuhlelo lwakho noma njengephepha lodonga lakho. Unemisho yokuqala engaphezu kwe-150 onayo, futhi sizofaka eminye imibono, izibonelo, kanye nokuzindla ukuze ukwazi ukuthola okuningi kukho.

Imishwana emifushane engu-150 ngezihloko ezahlukahlukene

Imishwana esizokwethula yona maduze ihlanganisa izigaba eziningana: imishwana ehlakaniphileimishwana evela ku- uthando, of ukuzihlonipha, ivuliwe i-amistad, lo umndeni, the uphumelele, the isikhathi, lo injabulo noma i ukukhula komuntu siquUzothola nemicabango ngobuhle, ukwethembeka, ithemba, kanye nencazelo yokuphila. Ukuze sikwenze kubonakale kakhudlwana, sifake izithombe ezizothuthukisa ulwazi lokufunda futhi ongabelana ngazo ngokukhululeka.

Lezi zisho ezimfushane zingenye yezindlela ezinhle kakhulu esizitholile futhi esizikhethele zona. Uzoba nohlu olubanzi noluhlukahlukene ongalusebenzisa ngendlela othanda ngayo: kukushukumise njalo ekuseni, ukuze ukukhuthaza umngane, ngenxa bonisa isikhashana ngaphambi kokulala noma ukumane ube nazo lapho udinga amazwi ambalwa okukukhumbuza okubalulekile.

• Ngingubani, bengikuphi, futhi ngiyaphi? - UCarl Sandburg.
• Ake kucace kuwe. Lapho umlomo wakho uphela khona, owami uqala. - UMario Benedetti.
• Eminyakeni edlule ngiye ngabona ukuthi ubuhle, njengenjabulo, buvamile. Alukho usuku oludlulayo lapho singekho, okwesikhashana, epharadesi. - UJorge Luis Borges.
• Yize sihambahamba emhlabeni wonke ukuthola ubuhle, kufanele sihambe nawo ukuze sibuthole. - U-Emerson.
• Umngane wabo bonke ungumngane wamuntu. - U-Aristotle.
• Angazi ukhiye wempumelelo, kepha ukhiye wokwehluleka ukuzama ukujabulisa wonke umuntu. - UBill Cosby.
• Ukuphila ngaphandle kwabangane akusikho ukuphila. - UCicero.
• Injabulo akuyona ukungabi khona kwezinkinga; yikhono lokubhekana nazo. - USteve Maraboli.
• Njalo ebusuku ngiyazihlukumeza ngicabanga ngawe. - UMario Benedetti.
• Amandla omndeni ekwethembekeni kwawo komunye nomunye. - UMario Puzo.
• Kunzima ukwahlulela ubuhle: ubuhle buyimpicabadala. - UFyodor Dostoevsky.
• Okuhle kubiza kakhulu njengokuwusizo. - UVictor Hugo.
• Ngingathanda ukuba yimi, kodwa ngibe ngcono kancane. - UMario Benedetti.
• Okungcono okuhle, kuyabacasula kakhulu ababi. - San Agustin.
• Uma unokuningi ongakufaka kukho, usuku luba namaphakethe ayikhulu. — Friedrich Nietzsche.
• Konke kunobuhle baso, kodwa akubona bonke abantu abangakubona. - UConfucius.
• Ngubani ongasho ukuthi, ababuthakathaka abaze badikibale. - UMario Benedetti.
• Isipiliyoni esibi kunazo zonke uthisha ongcono kunabo bonke. - UKovo.
• Impilo imfushane kakhulu ukuba uphile iphupho lomunye umuntu. — Hugh Hefner
• Ngingathanda ukubuka yonke into ukude kodwa nawe. - UMario Benedetti.
• Isayensi inezimpande ezibabayo, kepha izithelo zimnandi kakhulu. - U-Aristotle.

Kuleli qoqo lokuqala, zixutshwe ukuzindla okukhona ngemicabango ngothando, ubungani, noma umndeni. Yimisho ekumema ukuthi uzibuze ukuthi ungubani, uhamba nobani, nokuthi uyaphi. Futhi ikukhumbuza lokho Awukwazi ukujabulisa wonke umuntu Futhi lawo mandla eqiniso atholakala ekwethembekeni, ekubekezeleni, nasekwazini ukuthi ungabhekana kanjani nezikhathi ezimbi ngaphandle kokuyeka.

• Uma uzithola uwedwa uma uwedwa, ungumuntu omubi. — Jean Paul Sartre.
• Ngokwakha kahle, uba yingcweti yezakhiwo. - U-Aristotle.
• Ukwenza izinto ezimbili ngasikhathi sinye ukungazenzi neyodwa yazo. - U-Publilius Syrus.
• Ubuhle abenzi labo abanabo bajabule, kodwa labo abangabuthanda futhi babukhonze. - UHermann Hesse.
• Thanda izitha zakho, ngoba zizokutshela amaphutha akho. - UBenjamin Franklin.
• Imicabango emihle mihle, kepha ilula njengebhamu lensipho, uma imizamo yokuyifaka esenzweni ingayilandeli. - UGaspar Melchor de Jovellanos.
• Kungokwenza okuhle kuphela lapho ungajabula ngempela. - U-Aristotle.
• Umuntu ohlakaniphile angawuguqula umqondo wakhe. Isiwula, neze. - U-Immanuel Kant.
• Konke ongakucabanga kungokoqobo. - UPablo Picasso.
• Indoda ehlakaniphile ayisho konke ekucabangayo, kepha ihlala icabanga konke ekushoyo. - U-Aristotle.
• Ubuhle bangaphandle abuyilutho ngaphezu kobuhle besikhashana. Ukuvela komzimba akuhlali kuyisibonakaliso somphefumulo. - UGeorge Sand.
• Zifake konke entweni encane kakhulu oyenzayo. — Fernando Pessoa.
• Saba labo abagubuzelayo, babe babi, bahle. - URamón de Campoamor.
• Iqiniso lishiya okuningi emcabangweni. - UJohn Lennon.
• Sonke sidinga ukuhlanganyela kwesinye isikhathi, umuntu ozosisiza sisebenzise izinhliziyo zethu. - UMario Benedetti.
• Isilinganiso sokwethembeka sibaluleke ngaphezu kwephawundi lezobunhloli. - U-Elbert Hubbard.
• Ukufa kususa konke obekungekho, kepha sisele nalokho ebesinakho. - UMario Benedetti.
• Noma uqeda amacembe, ngeke ubususe ubuhle bawo ezimbalini. - URabindranath Tagore.
• Njengokubona komzimba, isizathu emoyeni. - U-Aristotle.
• Ngiyakuthanda, uyakuthanda, yena uyathanda, nathi siyathanda, nonke niyathanda, nabo bayathanda. Ngifisa sengathi bekungekona nje ukuhlangana kodwa kube ngokoqobo. — UMario Benedetti.
• Isimo sempilo yakho asilutho ngaphandle kokubonakaliswa kwesimo sengqondo yakho. — Wayne Dyer
• Endaweni ethile eyi-oasis, ugwadule luyisimangaliso nje. - UMario Benedetti.

Leli qoqo lesibili lezingcaphuno liyakumema ukuthi Bheka ngaphakathiKukusiza ukuthi uhlole imicabango yakho, ikhono lakho lokugxilisa ingqondo, izindinganiso zakho, kanye nendlela ohumusha ngayo iqiniso. Kuphinde kukukhumbuze ngokubaluleka... isenzoImicabango emihle ayisizi ngalutho uma ingahunyushi ibe izinqumo ezincane zansuku zonke. Iningi lala magama lilungele izikhathi lapho udinga khona isibindi sokushintsha Noma ufuna ukukhumbula ukuthi ingqondo yakho iyisihlungi obona ngaso impilo yakho?

• Injabulo ifihliwe egumbini lokulinda lenjabulo. — Eduard Punset.
• Amandla ethu amandla ethu okunquma. - IBuckminster Fuller.
• Esikwaziyo iconsi lamanzi; esingakunaki ulwandle. - U-Isaac Newton.
• Yenza okwedlule okwedlule. - UDaniel Stern.
• Abangazi bathi, ohlakaniphileyo uyangabaza futhi abonakalise. - U-Aristotle.
• Imibuzo ethakazelisayo yilezo ezichitha izimpendulo. - USusan Sontag.
• Kukhanye kusasa nanamuhla. - U-Elizabeth Barrett Browing.
• Ukwethembeka kubonakala kulula, kodwa akunjalo. — UDavid Mitchell
• Yini ongazama ukuyenza uma wazi ukuthi ngeke wehluleke? - URobert Schuller.
• Abantu abajabuli ngokungaqiniseki. — Timothy Ferriss
• Impumelelo iyisamba semizamo emincane ephindaphindwayo usuku nosuku. — Robert Collier
• Uthando yigama, okuncane kwe-utopia. - UMario Benedetti.
• Ukwethembeka ngaphandle kwezibonelelo kuyinganekwane. - Wale Ayeni.
• Ubuhle obuhehayo abuvamile ukufana nobuhle obuthandayo. - UJosé Ortega y Gasset.
• Othile uhleli emthunzini namuhla ngoba othile watshala umuthi kudala. — Warren Buffett
• Khumbula ukuthi umuhle nje kunento enhle kunazo zonke owake wazenza. - UBilly Wilder.
• Siyazi ukuthi singobani, kodwa asazi ukuthi singaba yini. — UWilliam Shakespeare
• Isifiso sokujabulisa umoya ukuhlobisa kobuhle. - IVoltaire.
• Wonke umuntu ongcwele unesikhathi esidlule futhi wonke umuntu oyisoni unesikhathi esizayo. — Oscar Wilde
• Isikhathi yisilinganiso sokunyakaza phakathi kwezikhathi ezimbili. - U-Aristotle.
• Akunzima ukuthatha izinqumo uma wazi ukuthi yiziphi izindinganiso zakho. - URoy Disney.
• Ukuhlakanipha kuyindodakazi yesipiliyoni. - ULeonardo da Vinci.

Lapha umqondo ugcizelelwa ukuthi amandla akho eqiniso ahlala kuwe ikhono lokukhetha kanye nokuzimisela kwakho lwela nsuku zonkeLezi zinkulumo ziwusizo kakhulu uma udinga ugqozi lokuqhubeka nokusebenza emigomweni yakho, ukwamukela ukungaqiniseki, noma ukukhumbula ukuthi konke okuhlangenwe nakho, ngisho nokubuhlungu, kunezela ekuhlakanipheni kwakho. Ziphinde zikumeme ukuthi ucabange ngakho ukuhamba kwesikhathi kanye nomthelela wesikhathi eside wezinqumo zakho.

• Thatha izinto kalula. Akekho ophelele. Yamukela ngokuthula ubuntu bakho. — Deborah Day
• Kungcono ukwazi okuthile ngayo yonke into kunokwazi konke ngento eyodwa. - UBlaise Pascal.
• Umbuzo ocindezela kakhulu empilweni uthi: Wenzelani abanye? - UMartin Luther King Jr.
• Ngiyazi nje ukuthi angazi lutho. - USocrates.
• Ongakwazi wena, awazi. - UBertolt Brecht.
• I-Patriotism ukumane uthembeke kubangani, kubantu, nasemndenini. - URobert Santos.
• Ngikulindile lapho ubusuku buphenduka imini, ukububula kwethemba sekuvele kulahlekile. Angicabangi ukuthi uyeza, ngiyazi. - UMario Benedetti.
• Uzoba yigugu kwabanye njengoba ubulokhu uwena kuwe. - UMarcus T. Cicero.
• Ngoba uhlala ukhona noma kuphi, kepha ukhona kangcono lapho ngikuthanda khona. - UMario Benedetti.
• Ukwehluleka okuningi okubalulekile kuvela kubantu abangazange babone ukuthi babesondele kangakanani empumelelweni lapho beyeka. - UThomas A. Edison.
• Kugeleza umfula wosizi ngemithambo yami, kepha ngikhohliwe ukukhala. - UMario Benedetti.
• Kufanele ufunde okuningi ukuze wazi okuncane. - EMontesquieu.
• Ngingumuntu ohlakaniphe kunabo bonke emhlabeni, ngoba ngazi into eyodwa, futhi ukuthi angazi lutho. — USocrates.
• Kuzo zonke lezo zandla, esakhe kuphela esanginikeza impilo. - UMario Benedetti.
• Angazi noma uNkulunkulu ukhona, kepha uma ekhona, ngiyazi ukuthi ukungabaza kwami ​​ngeke kumkhathaze. - UMario Benedetti.
• Abesifazane abahle kakhulu abamangalisi ngosuku lwesibili. - UStendhal.
• Imfihlo yekusasa lakho ifihlakele enkambisweni yakho yansuku zonke. - UMike Murdok.
• Dedela lokho ocabanga ukuthi kufanele ube yikho. Yamukela lokho oyikho. - UBrené Brown.
• Uma uvala umnyango kuwo wonke amaphutha, iqiniso nalo lizoshiywa ngaphandle. - URabindranath Tagore.
• Ithemba iphupho lomuntu ovukayo. - U-Aristotle.
• Awukho umphefumulo, noma ngabe uhlonipheke kangakanani, ohlala unamathele kakhulu ezintweni zezinzwa, kwesinye isikhathi, ezingasuki kubo zifise okuhle kakhulu. - URene Descartes.

Leli qoqo lamagama liyaxubana ukuzamukelaUkuthobeka kwengqondo kanye nokuzwela kothando. Kukukhumbuza lokho Akudingeki ube ophelele ukufanelwe uthando, ukuthi ungafunda okuthile okusha njalo, nokuthi imikhuba yakho yansuku zonke iyinhloko yekusasa lakho. Ziphinde zigxile ku ithemba futhi ekwazini ukufisa okuthile okuphakeme kunezinto ezibonakalayo kuphela.

• Lowo othanda okuhle ulalela kahle. — Juan Montalvo.
• Akunandaba ukuthi isikhali sobuhle singaba namandla kangakanani, asijabule owesifazane okweleta kuphela kule nsiza ukunqoba okutholwe ngaphezu kwendoda. - Severo Catalina.
• Ubuhle bomzimba imvamisa buyinkomba yobuhle bomphefumulo. - UMiguel de Cervantes.
• I-Melancholy: indlela yothando yokudabuka. - UMario Benedetti.
• Okuhle kuhamba kancane ngoba kuyakhuphuka. Ububi buyashesha ngoba kuyakhuphuka. — Alexandre Dumas
• Ukuphila kuyancipha noma kwande ngokulingana nokubaluleka komuntu. — Anais Nin.
• Labo abakuzwayo, bayakwazi. — Bob Marley
• Konke okuhle kumuntu kuyadlula futhi akuhlali. - ULeonardo da Vinci.
• Lapho sikhula, ubuhle buba yimfanelo yangaphakathi. - U-Emerson.
• Kuyahlekisa ukuthi ungaba kanjani nonya olungenacala kwesinye isikhathi. - UMario Benedetti.
• Yilabo kuphela abalwayo abaphilayo. — Victor Hugo
• Inja ukuphela kwento emhlabeni ekuthanda ngaphezu kokuzithanda kwayo. - UJosh Billings.
• Impilo kumele iphilwe ibheke phambili, kodwa ingaqondwa kuphela uma ubheka emuva. — Kierkegaard.
• Uma ngihlala enkumbulweni yakho ngeke ngibe ngedwa. - UMario Benedetti.
• Zazi wena. Zemukele. Thuthukisa wena. - San Agustin.
• Impilo imfushane, ubusha bunqunyelwe, futhi amathuba awapheli. — UJustin Rosenstein
• Impilo enhle iqala ngaphakathi. — Malka Maxwell
• Ubungani ngumphefumulo ohlala emizimbeni emibili; inhliziyo ehlala emiphefumulweni emibili. - U-Aristotle.
• Angikwazi ukufisa ukuthi abafana abalungile banqobe, ngoba angazi ukuthi bangobani. - UGonzalo Torrente Ballester.
• Umbono yingxenye ephakathi kolwazi nokungazi. - UPlato.
• Indoda engazicabangeli yona ayicabangi nakancane. - U-Oscar Wilde.
• Izingxenye eziyishumi eziyisishiyagalolunye zokuhlakanipha zivela ekuhlakanipheni ngesikhathi. — Henry David Thoreau

Lezi zinkulumo ziyakumema ukuthi yazisa ubuntu bakho bangaphakathi Ngale kokubonakala, kumayelana nokulwela lokho okubalulekile nokuqonda ukuthi impilo iba nkulu uma unesibindi esikhulu sokuphila ngendlela yakho. Baphinde bagcizelele ukuthi ubungane beqiniso...othandweni olungenamibandela (njengolwenja) kanye nokubaluleka zicabangele ngaphandle kokuzivumela ukuthi uthonywe yimibono yabanye abantu.

• Intshiseko ishukumisa umhlaba. — Arthur Balfour
• Ungafika uzobuyisa lokho owawuyikho ngaphambili. Ngisho noma ungaseyena wena. — Mario Benedetti.
• Ngifuna ukukhula. Ngifuna ukuba ngcono. Wena uyakhula. Sonke siyakhula. Senzelwe ukukhula; siyathuthuka noma siyanyamalala. — Tupac Shakur
• Ngizokulinda lapho sibheka isibhakabhaka ebusuku: wena lapho, mina lapha. - UMario Benedetti.
• Ukuthembeka ngudadewabo wobulungiswa. - UHoracio.
• Ubumbano luyancomeka; ukwethembeka umuntu ohlala eceleni kwakho lapho uSathane ekubiza. - USuzanne Elizabeth Anderson.
• Inhlanhla ilingana nokujuluka. Lapho ujuluka kakhulu, uba nenhlanhla. - URay Kroc.
• Ayikho into engathatha isikhundla sokwethembeka. - UJames Lee Burke.
• Umusa uwukuphela kokutshalwa kwezimali okungasoze kwaphela. — Henry David Thoreau
• Awulungile kakhulu uma ungcono kunalokho abangane bakho abakucabangayo. - UJohann Kaspar Lavater.
• Ngokumelene nethemba akukho mithi yokugoma. - UMario Benedetti.
• Singashintsha izimpilo zethu futhi ekugcineni, sishintshe umhlaba. — Kristi Bowman
• Uma wenza kahle ngokubongwa, ungumthengisi, hhayi umusa; abahahayo, hhayi abantulayo. - UFrancisco de Quevedo.
• Abantu abawuboni umhlaba njengoba unjalo, kodwa njengoba unjalo. - U-Al Lee.
• Wonke umuntu uzama ukwenza into enkulu, engazi ukuthi impilo yakhiwe ngezinto ezincane. - UFrank Clark.
• Ukwazi okuningi kunikeza ithuba lokungabaza okuningi. - UMiche de Montaigne.
• Zama ukufana nofudu; lukhululekile egobolondweni lalo. — Bill Copeland.
• Emhlambini wamajuba amhlophe, igwababa elimnyama linezela ubuhle obedlula ukwethembeka kweswan. - UGiovanni Boccaccio.
• Awazi ukuthi ngisazisa kanjani isibindi sakho esilula sokungithanda. - UMario Benedetti.
• Zama ukuba uthingo efwini lothile. — Maya Angelou
• Umuthi awudambisi, ubulala kuphela. - ULance Armstrong.
• Ngayithola yinhle kakhulu kangangokuthi angizange ngikhumbule ukuthi kwakunjani kamuva. - UPío Baroja.

Nansi isifiso sokukhula komuntu siqu Ngamandla entshiseko, umusa, nokwethembeka. Lezi yizisho eziphelele okufanele uzikhumbule ukuthi inhlanhla yakhiwa ngomzamo, ukuthi izinguquko ezinkulu ziqala ngaphakathi kuwe, nokuthi ukunakekela abanye Ngezenzo ezincane ungaba uthingo lomuntu.

• Isitha ukwesaba. Sicabanga ukuthi kuyinzondo kodwa wukwesaba. - UGandhi.
• Akulula ukunikeza ukwethembeka kwakho kumuntu ongamazi, ikakhulukazi uma lowo muntu ekhetha ukungadaluli lutho ngaye. — Megan Whalen Turner
• Ngomzuzu kunezinsuku eziningi. - UWilliam Shakespeare.
• Angikwazi ukushintsha indlela umoya ohamba ngayo, kodwa ngingakwazi ukulungisa amaseyili ami ukuze afike njalo lapho ngiya khona. — Jimmy Dean
• Isihluthulelo sempumelelo sibeka engcupheni ukucabanga okungahambelani. Umhlangano uyisitha senqubekela phambili. - UTrevor Baylis.
• Kuyiqiniso ukuthi uthando lulondoloza ubuhle nokuthi ubuso babesifazane bondliwa yi-caresses, njengoba nje izinyosi zondliwa ngoju. - Anatole France.
• Impilo iyashintsha. Ukukhula kungakhethwa. Khetha ngokuhlakanipha. - UKaren Kaiser Clark.
• Kholwa kuwe nakukho konke oyikho. Qaphela ukuthi kukhona okuthile ngaphakathi kuwe okukhulu kunanoma yisiphi isithiyo. — Christian D. Larson
• Ungazalwa kanjani kabusha ngaphandle kokuba uqale uphelelwe umlotha? — Friedrich Nietzsche.
• Yakha amaphupho akho noma omunye umuntu uzokuqasha ukuze wakhe awakhe. - UFarrah Mpunga.
• Kumelwe kube nomuntu ophetheyo. Kungani kungenjalo wena? — UJenene George S. Patton.
• Sonke sifuna okungenziwa, singabalandeli bokuthile okungavunyelwe. - UMario Benedetti.
• Uma ungeke usifele, awukwazi ukusicela ukuthi sikwenzele yona. - UJacqueline Carey.
• Ngithembekile kubantu bakithi, futhi, ngokungafani nawe, ngifunde ukusebenza njengesosha futhi ngibheke emehlweni ngaphandle kokuthathwa njengenja. - UJordi Balaguer.
• Siwela okungenamkhawulo ngesinyathelo ngasinye; sihlangana nokuphakade ngomzuzwana ngamunye. — Rabindranath Tagore
• Umcabango ovusa inkanuko kakhulu esikhathini sethu esivusa inkanuko ukuthi namanje asicabangi. - UMartin Heidegger.
• Bheka kabili ukuze ubone okulungile. Ungabuki ngaphezu kwesisodwa ukubona okuhle. - UHenry F. Amiel.
• Uthando oluphelele lusezintweni ezintathu ezilula: ukuzinikela, ukwethembeka, kanye nokuzidela. — MF Moonzajer.
• Lapho kunenhlamvu yokwethembeka kukhona ukusikisela kwenkululeko. - U-Algernon Charles Swinburne.
• Ukufunwa kokwenza okuhle kuyashukumisa; ukuphishekela ukuphelela kuyadumaza. - UHarriet Braiker.

Iningi lala magama ligxile ku- ukunqoba ukwesabaKholelwa emakhonweni akho futhi ucabange ngendlela ehlukile. Baphinde bangene bajule kakhulu ukwethembekaUkubaluleka kokulungisa indlela lapho izimo zishintsha, kanye nomqondo wokuthi impilo ishintsha njalo, kodwa ukukhula kuyisinqumo sansuku zonke. Lezi yimiyalezo ewusizo kakhulu uma uzizwa ubambekile futhi udinga ukusunduzwa ukuze uthathe ingozi.

Indlela yokusebenzisa imishwana emifushane ukuze uzindle futhi ucabange ngempilo yakho yansuku zonke

Ukufunda imishwana emihle kungakhuthaza, kodwa zihlanganise esimisweni sakho Yilokhu okwenza umehluko ngempela. Ngokusekelwe kokuhlangenwe nakho okutholakale ezihlokweni kwamanye amawebhusayithi akhethekile, kanye nalokho esikwaziyo kwi-psychology, singaphakamisa izindlela eziningana ezisebenzayo zokusebenzisa kahle:

• Isiko lasekuseni: Qala usuku lwakho ngokufunda isisho esikukhuthazayo. Ungakhetha esisodwa kwezingenhla. isibindi, ukubonga o shintsha futhi makube ngumqondo wakho oqondisayo usuku lonke.
• Isimo se-WhatsApp noma izinkundla zokuxhumana: Sebenzisa umusho ukuveza indlela ozizwa ngayo, ukuthumela umlayezo omuhle, noma ukwabelana ngomcabango nabantu oxhumana nabo. Kuyindlela elula yokwenza kanjalo ugqozi lokuhlwanyela kwezinye.
• Ijenali Yokubonga Nokuzindla: Bhala umusho ubusuku ngabunye ofingqa usuku lwakho noma okusiza ukuthi ulubone ngendlela ehlukile. Luhlobanise nento oye wayibona bese ubhala lokho okufundile kukho.
• Izikhumbuzi ezibonakalayo: Phrinta izingcaphuno zakho ozithandayo, uzibhale emanothini anamathelayo, noma uziguqule zibe iphepha lodonga lakho. ukuphindaphinda okubonakalayo Kubenza baqoshwe kancane kancane engqondweni yakho.
• Imiyalezo yabanye abantu: Ukuthumela umlayezo kumuntu obhekene nesikhathi esinzima kungaba isenzo esincane kodwa esinenjongo kakhulu. Ngezinye izikhathi, amazwi ambalwa angafeza lokho izinkulumo ezinde ezingenakukufeza.

Ngokusho kochwepheshe abaningi bentuthuko yomuntu siqu, ukufunda njalo imishwana efana nale kuyasiza yandisa indlela yakho yokucabangabuza izinkolelo eziqinile bese udala ukuxhumana okusha kwengqondoAkukhona nje ukuziqoqa, kodwa ukuzivumela zisebenze njengesibuko lapho ungabona khona impilo yakho ngezindlela ezahlukene.

Imisho emifushane mayelana nokuphila ukuze uzindle futhi ubonge lokho onakho

Impilo uhambo olugcwele okuhlangenwe nakho, izinqumo kanye nokufundaNgezinye izikhathi, umusho owodwa wanele ukukunikeza ukucaca noma ukukwenza ubone ukuthi lokho obhekene nakho kunengqondo, noma ngabe awukuqondi ngokugcwele njengamanje. Amawebhusayithi abancintisani agcizelela kakhulu umqondo wokuthi Ungalindeli izinkulumo ezinkuluAmagama ambalwa akhethwe kahle angavusa okuningi kuwe kunencwadi yonke.

Eminye imibono ebalulekile evame ukuphindwa ezicaphunweni ezinhle kakhulu mayelana nokuphila yile:

• Impilo ishintsha njalo, futhi Ushintsha naye.
• Isikhathi sinqunyelwe, ngakho-ke kungcono... sebenzisa ithuba ngamabomu.
• Akukhona nje kuphela ukuthi kwenzekani kuwe, kodwa indlela okhetha ukuyichaza ngayo.
• Ngokuvamile, ubunzima buyizinto isandulela sokufunda okuhle.
• Nguwe kuphela onganquma ukuthi uzowaqondisa kuphi amandla akho nokunaka kwakho.

Ukuze usebenzise le mibono empilweni yakho, ungakhetha imisho ethinta inhliziyo yakho kakhulu ohlwini olungenhla bese uzibuza: Yisiphi ingxenye yosuku lwami evumelana nalokhu? Yisiphi isinqumo engisithatha namuhla esingahambisana nalo mbono? Yini engiyihlehlisayo ngenxa yokwesaba noma ubuvila?

Imisho emifushane mayelana nesikhathi kanye nokuhamba kwezinsuku

Amaqoqo amaningi emishwana emifushane asezingeni eliphezulu ezinjini zokusesha anikezela izingxenye eziphelele ekuxoxeni nge- isikhathiAkuyona into eyenzekile ngengozi: ubudlelwano bethu nemizuzu, amahora, neminyaka buyithonya kakhulu indlela esizizwa ngayo. Ukucabanga ukuthi isikhathi asinamkhawulo kusiholela ekubeni hlehlisaUkuqaphela kakhulu ukuthi idlula ngokushesha kungabangela ukukhathazeka.

Izingcaphuno ezinhle kakhulu mayelana nesikhathi ziqokomisa imibono efana nale:

• Yonke imizuzu ayinakuphindwa: Yingakho kubalulekile ukuba khona kulokho okwenzayo, esikhundleni sokuphila nge-autopilot.
• Okuwukuphela kwento onayo ngempela isikhathi sakho: Ngisho nalabo abanezinsiza ezilinganiselwe banganquma ukuthi bazosebenzisa kanjani isikhathi sabo.
• Akukhona ngokuphila iminyaka eminingi, kodwa ngokugcwalisa impilo yayo: Okubalulekile akusibo ubuningi, kodwa ikhwalithi yalokho obhekana nakho.
• Imingcele yesikhathi esidlule, ikusasa liyethusa, kodwa okwamanje yindawo ephephile kuphela: Iningi lemisho yalolu hlobo ikukhuthaza ukuthi ugxile esikhathini samanje.

Uma uxhumanisa le mibono nezingcaphuno ezivela ku-Aristotle, Tagore, noma Shakespeare ozifundile ngenhla, uzobona intambo efanayo: sebenzisa lesi sikhathi samanjeQaphela indlela osebenzisa ngayo ukunaka kwakho futhi ukhumbule ukuthi umzuzu ngamunye ubalulekile. Ungasebenzisa omunye walaba basho njenge-alamu yansuku zonke efonini yakho ukuze uzikhumbuze ukuthi isikhathi asibuyi.

Imisho emifushane mayelana nenjabulo nesimo sengqondo esihle

Esinye isihloko esikhulu esiphindaphindayo ezihlokweni ezisezingeni eliphezulu yilesi... izingcaphuno mayelana nenjabuloAkukhona ukuphika ukuthi kunezinkinga, kodwa ukukhumbula ukuthi injabulo ingatholakala nasezinsukwini ezivamile, ezintweni ezilula nezincane.

Ngokubuka zonke lezi ziqoqo, kungatholakala imibono eminingana ebalulekile:

• Injabulo iwukucabanga kakhulu kunesimo: Imisho eminingi igcizelela ukuthi kuncike kakhulu endleleni obheka ngayo izinto kunakulokho onakho.
• Ukwabelana kwandisa injabulo: Kugcizelelwa ukuthi ukuhleka nenjabulo kuyakhula lapho kwabelwana nabanye.
• Akukho injabulo ngaphandle komehluko othile nobuhlungu: Ukudabuka kwandisa ukujula futhi kwenza izikhathi zenjabulo zibe yigugu kakhulu.
• Ukubonga kuyindlela eqondile eya enhlalakahleni: Ukubonga ngalokho onakho, esikhundleni sokugxila kulokho okushodayo kuphela, kushintsha isimo sakho sangaphakathi.

Ukusebenzisa imisho emihle ohlelweni lwakho akusho ukuthi uziphoqe ukuthi uhlale ulungile, kodwa kunalokho uqeqesha ingqondo yakho ukuthi bheka futhi ukukhanya Ngisho nangezinsuku ezimpunga. Ungahlanganisa elinye lamagama esivele siwabonile, njengokuthi "Injabulo iyisithako esiyinhloko eresiphi yempilo," nesenzo esiqondile: shayela othile, hamba uyohamba, yenza okuthile okukujabulelayo.

Imisho emifushane mayelana nothando, ubudlelwano, kanye nokuzethemba

Uthando lungenye indaba ebalulekile emishweni ekwabelwana kakhulu ngayo. Okuqukethwe komncintiswano kukhuluma ngakho kokubili... uthando lwezithandani kanye nothando lomndeni, abangane, futhi ngokuphindaphindiwe, uthando lwakhoImisho esiyiqoqile kulesi sihloko, ikakhulukazi leyo evela kuMario Benedetti nabanye ababhali, isivele ithinta eziningi zalezi zici ezihlukile.

Eminye imibono evela ngokuqhathanisa yonke le mithombo yile:

• Impilo engenalo uthando, nganoma yiziphi izinhlobo zayo, izwakala akuphelele.
• Uthando olunempilo alusekelwe esifisweni kuphela, kodwa inhlonipho, lo ukwethembeka futhi i ukuncomana.
• Ukuzithanda kuyisisekelo lapho kwakhiwa khona ubudlelwano obulinganiselayo nabanye.
• Akukhona ukufuna ukuphelela kothando, kodwa mayelana nakekela lokho esinakho ngokubekezela.

Uma uphinda ufunda imisho kaBenedetti mayelana nokulinda, inkumbulo, noma ukuba khona komunye umuntu empilweni yakho, uzobona ukuthi eminingi yayo ingakusiza. qonda kangcono imizwa yakho Uthando: amaphupho, ukwesaba, usizi, noma isisa. Ungasebenzisa futhi le misho ukuveza lokho okuzwayo lapho ungakwazi ukuthola amagama afanele.

Imishwana emifushane yokukhula komuntu siqu kanye nokuzithuthukisa

Impumelelo enkulu yemisho emifushane ibangelwa ikhono layo lokuthuthukisa ushintsho lomuntu siquImibhalo yalo mncintiswano igcizelela ukuthi impilo iwuhambo lokuzitholela, lapho yonke inkinga, wonke amaphutha, kanye nesinqumo ngasinye kungaba yisinyathelo esiya enguqulweni eqondayo ngawe.

Uma sixhumanisa lokho nalokho osuvele ukufundile kulesi sihloko, kuvela imigqa eminingana yamandla:

• Ukuzindla kukusiza ukuxhumanisa imibono owake wakubona ngokwehlukana futhi manje uthola incazelo kulokho okwenzekayo kuwe.
• Ukungabaza izinkolelo zakho eziqinile kukuvumela ukuthi ube nezimo kakhudlwana futhi uzivumelanise kangcono noshintsho.
• Ukubhekana nokungaqiniseki kwakho, ukulinganiselwa, kanye nokwesaba kungakuguqula kube imithombo yamandla, njengoba uFreud noma u-Anaïs Nin bekhumbula.
• Ubuhle buphishekelwa ukubekezelela, kanti ukuphelela okuphelele kuvame ukukhungathekisa.

Indlela elula yokusebenzisa lokhu ukukhetha umusho mayelana isibindi o ukuzazi (isibonelo, “Zazi. Zamukele. Zithuthukise.”) bese uzibuza ukuthi yisiphi isinyathelo esincane nesiqondile ongasithatha namuhla kuleyo ndlela: cela usizo, qala umkhuba, yenqaba into engakulungelanga, bhala ngalokho ozizwa ngakho…

Izinzuzo zengqondo zokufunda imishwana emifushane yokuzindla

Akuyona into engaqondakali ukuthi abantu abaningi baphendukela kulezi zingcaphuno lapho bebhekene nokungabaza noma izingxabano. Ngokombono wengqondo, kuye kwabonwa eziningana. inzuzo ukufaka ukuzindla ngemisho emifushane empilweni yakho yansuku zonke:

• Udala amabhuloho amasha engqondo: Ngokufunda imibono exhumanisa imiqondo obungayixhumanisanga ngaphambilini, ubuchopho bakho bukhiqiza ukuxhumana okusha kwezinzwa futhi buguquguquka kakhudlwana.
• Wandisa umbono wakho ngeqiniso: Ukuxhumana neminye imibono (izazi zefilosofi, abalobi, abantu abavela kwezinye izinkathi) kukuvumela ukuthi uqonde kangcono Umongo womphakathi kanye nezisusa zabantu.
• Ubeka ukukhathazeka kwakho endaweni efanele: Uma ubona ukuthi abanye bazibuze imibuzo efanayo nawe futhi bathole izimpendulo, inkinga yakho iyayeka ukubonakala njengodonga olungenakunqotshwa.
• Uthola amagama achaza lokho okuzwayo: Ngokuvamile, ibinzana linikeza igama imizwa owawunayo kodwa ungazi ukuthi uzoyiveza kanjani.

Kodwa-ke, umphumela uba mkhulu kakhulu uma ungafundi nje imisho kuphela, kodwa uma uyeka imizuzu embalwa ukuze cabanga ngalokho ezikushoyo kuweukuthi zihlobana kanjani nendaba yakho nokuthi yiziphi izinguquko ezikumema ukuba uzenze. Ungasebenzisa lesi sihloko njengohlobo oluthile lwe- imephu yengqondoBuyela kukho ngezikhathi ezithile, gcizelela okukuthinta kakhulu, bese ubheka ukuthi izimpendulo zakho zishintsha kanjani ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.

Lokho kuphetha iqoqo lethu lezingcaphuno ezimfushane. Sithemba ukuthi uzijabulele, futhi uma ubufuna imicabango ngesihloko esithile, sikumema ukuthi uhlole ezinye izikhala zethu zezingcaphuno ezihlobene. Uma ungathanda ukwabelana ngengcaphuno oyibona ibalulekile engafakiwe lapha, sicela uyishiye esigabeni sokuphawula ngezansi. Sisonke, singaqhubeka nokwandisa lolu lwandle lwamagama aphefumulelayo, aduduzayo, futhi asisize sibheke impilo ngokuthula okukhulu.