Ngezinye izikhathi, amazwi afanele angakusiza ukuthi uphume esimweni esinzima . Uma kukhona okukukhathazayo, kuba umjikelezo omubi ongenakukwazi ukuwuphula. Awukwazi ukuthola indlela yokuphuma wedwa, futhi amazwi akho akwanele ukuzolalisa ukukhathazeka kwakho. Ukuze sikusize kule nqubo, ukuze sikunike amathuluzi owadingayo ukuze ubhekane nezinselele zokuphila, udinga ukwesekwa—izwi elingakusiza ukuthi ukhombe inkinga futhi likuqondise ekutholeni ikhambi.
Yilokho kuphela ongakuthola kumisindo yokuzisiza kulesi sigaba . Kulezi zinsuku, kunezindlela ezahlukene zokuthola lawo magama akusiza ukuthi ubone ukukhanya ekugcineni komhubhe: izincwadi, izithombe, izingcaphuno, noma, njengakulesi simo, ukuqoshwa komsindo. Konke kudalwe ochwepheshe ukusiza abantu ukuthola inguqulo engcono kakhulu yabo. Ngoba akukhona ukuba ngcono phakathi kwabanye, kodwa mayelana nokuthuthukisa amandla omuntu ngamunye.
Kulapho-ke kuphela lapho uzokwazi khona ukuthola injabulo yangempela nenduduzo kuwe. Mhlawumbe okufunayo ukushintsha izici zobuntu bakho ongazithandi, njengokuntuleka kwesifiso sokuvelela, ubunzima bokusungula ubudlelwano obunenjongo nabanye, noma ukungakwazi ukubona ngaphakathi kuwe izindinganiso ezikwenza uqine emehlweni abanye. Konke lokhu kungafundwa futhi kusetshenzwe ukuze kuthuthukiswe. Ngoba, yize umuntu ngamunye enobuntu bakhe kanye nezici ezimenza ahluke futhi ahluke, ubuntu bakhe buyakheka kukho konke ukuphila nangokwezinto ahlangabezane nazo.
Impilo ifana nohambo ; ngezinye izikhathi, okuhlangenwe nakho kungase kungahlangabezani nokulindela kwakho, okukulethela isithiyo ongeke ukwazi ukusinqoba. Kodwa-ke, impilo nayo yinto okufanele uyifunde ukuze uyiphile, njengoba nje nosana kufanele lufunde ukuhamba, ukudla, noma ukukhuluma. Ukufunda kuyo yonke imizuzu nakho konke okuhlangenwe nakho, ukuthola okuhle kuzo zonke izimo, kuzokusiza ukuthi uphile ngokulinganisela okukhulu, ujabulele izikhathi ezimnandi futhi uthole izifundo ezibalulekile zokuphila kwezingezinhle kangako.
Kodwa-ke, ukukhethwa kwezinhlelo zomsindo zokuzisiza kukhulu kakhulu kangangokuthi ukuthola eyodwa efanela izidingo zakho nganoma yisiphi isikhathi kungaba nzima kakhulu . Ngakho-ke, kulesi sigaba somsindo, uzothola izincomo ezihlelwe ngezindikimba ezithile, okwenza kube lula ngawe ukuthola umsindo ongashintsha impilo yakho.
Mhlawumbe udinga nje ukuzwa amagama afanele, ngesikhathi esifanele, kumuntu owazi ukuziveza kahle. Mhlawumbe uzothola inkulumo ephathelene nempumelelo noma izihluthulelo zomsebenzi ophumelelayo —amagama ahlakaniphile azokuholela ekuqapheleni ukuthi akudingeki waneliseke ngalokho okungakujabulisi. Ngoba wonke umuntu unamandla okushintsha lezo zici ezingabanelisi. Abanye abantu bayazi ukuthi banesihluthulelo sempumelelo ngaphakathi kubo; abanye, nokho, badinga amathuluzi okusebenza ebuntwini babo futhi ngaleyo ndlela bathole konke abakwaziyo ukukwenza.
Thola imisindo ozoyithola kulesi sigabaFunda konke mayelana nendlela yokuphila, ngezindlela ezingcono kakhulu zokuphila impilo ephelele nenenjabulo, imfihlo yokuphumelela emsebenzini, uthando noma indlela ehambelana kangcono nezidingo zakho. Nguwe kuphela owaziyo okudingayo, sibeka ama-audios, izingqungquthela, ama-audiobook kanye nazo zonke izinhlobo zezinsizakusebenza esandleni sakho ukwenza kube lula kuwe ukuthola indlela eya enjabulweni. Ngoba, ngokuphambene nalokho abagxeki abangakucabanga, izincwadi, okulalelwayo noma okuhlukahlukene recursos de autoayuda Akuzona ezababuthakathaka, kepha kulabo abazi ukuthi bangafunda kanjani kwabanye.
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