Masibhekane nakho, kwesinye isikhathi kubonakala sengathi impilo yakho iyawohloka ngokungenakulungiseka. Mhlawumbe ulahlekelwe ngumsebenzi, noma umshado wakho usanda kuphela, noma ubungeke uphumelele esivivinyweni futhi manje uvele uzizwe ungenalusizo, uhluliwe, ukhungathekile.
UWinston Churchill wake wathi:
"Impumelelo iqukethe ukusuka ekuhlulekeni kuye ekuhlulekeni ngaphandle kokulahlekelwa umdlandla."
Namuhla ngifuna ukukukhumbuza ukuthi kungani, noma uzizwa sengathi uhlulekile, unephutha. Nazi izimpawu ezingu-9 ezibonisa ukuthi wenza kahle empilweni, noma ungakukholwa:
1) Unombhede onethezekile ongalala kuwo nokuthile ongakufaka emlonyeni wakho.
Emazweni amaningi, izingane ezincane zibuza omama bazo ukuthi zizodla nini noma kungani zingayi esikoleni futhi kufanele zihambe amakhilomitha ayi-10 ngosuku ukuze zithole amanzi okuphuza amancane. Lezi zingane azinawo ngisho nombhede.
2) Uzabalazela ukuba ngcono.
Ukuzizwa udabuke kancane ngoba awukafinyeleli lokho obukufuna kukhombisa ukuthi uzama konke okusemandleni akho. Isihluthulelo ukungadikibali nokuqhubeka uzama. Zinike imizuzu embalwa uhlaziye izizathu "zokwehluleka" kwakho bese ucabanga ukuthi ungathuthuka kanjani ngesikhathi esizayo.
Gxila ezixazululweni, hhayi ezinkingeni. Eqinisweni, susa igama elithi "inkinga" esilulumagama sakho. Lifake esikhundleni salo igama elithi "inselelo . "
U-Einstein wake wathi:
"Akukhona ukuthi ngihlakaniphe kangako, ukuthi nje ngihlala nezinkinga isikhathi eside."
Hlala lapho ulwe ukuze ube yinguqulo yakho engcono kakhulu.
Ukwehluleka kwenzeka kuphela uma uphonsa ithawula. pic.twitter.com/SSs9V6IPNy
— Izinsiza (@RecursoAyuda) Okthoba 22, 2015
3) Unomsebenzi noma ubenomsebenzi.
Noma ngabe ukubheka kanjani, zombili izinketho zinhle. Uma usuvele unomsebenzi, siyakuhalalisela… kodwa qiniseka ukuthi ujabule ngawo, ngaphandle kwalokho sizobhekana nenye inselele 😉 Uma usanda kulahlekelwa umsebenzi wakho, bheka ohlangothini oluhle lwesimo sakho esisha. Unesikhathi esengeziwe sakho, sokuhlangana nabantu abasha, ukuhlola izindawo ezintsha, kanye nokunikela isikhathi esengeziwe ezintweni ozithandayo. Ngiyaqiniseka ukuthi akekho obulawa yindlala lapho uhlala khona. Lokhu akusho ukuthi kufanele ubhajwe esimweni sakho esisha. Qhubeka ufuna umsebenzi omusha, setha isimiso, bese uya ezindaweni lapho ungathanda ukusebenza khona. Ungabhalisela inkambo ekuqeqesha emsebenzini owujabulela kakhulu. Izwe lamathuba liyavuleka phambi kwakho. Lungisa izimali zakho ukuze zivumelane nesimo sakho esisha (khumbula isisho esivela kuJosé Múgica engisithumele ngenhla).
Kuthunyelwe yi- PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT ngoLwesihlanu , Okthoba 9, 2015
4) Ulwazi kutholakale kalula.
Asikaze sibe namathuba amaningi kangaka okuba ochwepheshe kokuthile. Kuthatha amahora ayi-10.000 kuphela okufunda nokuzijwayeza entweni eyodwa ukuze sibe ochwepheshe kukho.
Uma ufuna ukufunda ukudlala isiginci, ube uchwepheshe ku-Photoshop, ube umphathi wewebhu ophumelelayo, noma yini enye ozimisele ukuyenza, udinga amahora ayi-10.000 kuphela futhi uzokwenza umehluko omkhulu empilweni yakho maqondana nalokho okufundile.
I-Intanethi, imitapo yolwazi yomphakathi, izitolo ezidayisa izincwadi, izingqungquthela, izifundo ... Akukaze ngaphambili sibe nokufinyelela okungaka kulwazi.
Sebenzisa leli thuba elihle.
— Izinsiza (@RecursoAyuda) Okthoba 22, 2015
5) Unamandla wokukhetha. U-Aristotle wake wathi:
"Ubuhle abukaze bube ngengozi. Kuhlala kungumphumela wenhloso enkulu, umzamo oqotho, kanye nokwenza okuhlakaniphile. Ukukhetha, hhayi ithuba, kunquma ikusasa lakho."
Unamandla okukhetha impilo esezingeni eliphezulu, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ubhekene nezinselele ezinjani endleleni. Ungakhetha njalo indlela engalungile noma efanele. Ngokuvamile, ukukhetha indlela efanele akulula. Kudinga ukuzimisela okukhulu kanye nesineke.
Kuthunyelwe yi- PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT ngoLwesine, Okthoba 22, 2015
6) Unephupho.
Wonke umuntu unephupho kulokhu kuphila. Kungani ungazibophezeli nsuku zonke ekuthatheni isinyathelo esincane esikusondeza kulelo phupho? Zibone unenhlanhla yokuba nephupho lokuphila nokulwela ukulifinyelela.
Ungalindeli ukuthi impilo izodlula futhi awukazami ukufeza elinye lamaphupho akho.
— Izinsiza (@RecursoAyuda) Okthoba 22, 2015
7) Unamandla okujabula ngoba kuyinto encike kuwe.
Nginezindaba ezinhle engingakunika zona. Injabulo ivela ngaphakathi kuwe, hhayi ngaphandle. Noma ingcebo ayinakukunika amandla okujabula impilo yakho yonke, futhi ukuphuka kwenhliziyo akunamandla okwenza ungajabuli. Injabulo ivela ekuthuleni kwengqondo, ekubeni muhle kuwe. Ukuzindla ingakusiza uthole lokhu kuthula. 
8) Unekhono lokuxolela.
Ungacabanga ukuthi leli zwe lingaba njani ngaphandle kokuthethelela? Ukuthethelela umuntu okuphathe kabi kunzima, kodwa futhi kukhulula kakhulu. Izindaba ezinhle ukuthi sonke sinesipho sokuthethelela.
pic.twitter.com/B6qxSBTI8p — Izinsiza (@RecursoAyuda) Okthoba 22, 2015
9) Unethuba lokwakha ubungani bomhlaba wonke.
Ngenxa yentuthuko yezobuchwepheshe, ungenza abangane noma kuphi emhlabeni. Ungaxhumana nabantu abanezintshisekelo ezifanayo nezakho futhi wakhe ubungane obuhlala njalo nobuqotho.
Uma ukujabulele lesi sihloko, sicela ucabangele ukusabelana ngaso nabangani bakho nomndeni wakho. Ngiyabonga kakhulu ngokusekela kwakho. [mashshare]
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