Uthando lweqiniso luyinto enhle neyimfihlakalo empilweni abantu abaningi abangayiqondi. Luyinto abantu abayifuna futhi abanethemba lokuyithola ngolunye usuku. Abanye abantu bafuna iminyaka eminingi ukuthola lowo muzwa, kanti abanye bawuthola besebancane.
Ngaphambi kokuba ubone lezi zingcaphuno eziphefumulelayo, ngiyakumema ukuthi ubukele le vidiyo esikhuthaza ukuba samukele kakhudlwana ezimpilweni zethu... awazi ukuthi ungalutholaphi uthando lwakho lweqiniso.
Ngiyethemba ukuthi ngemva kokubuka le vidiyo, uzobona ubunzima bansuku zonke njengethuba lokuhlangana nomuntu othakazelisayo ngempela.
Akukho ncazelo ebanzi yokuthi uthando lweqiniso lusho ukuthini . Umuntu ngamunye uzwa amandla alo muzwa ngendlela ehlukile futhi unesipiliyoni sakhe esiyingqayizivele.
Kodwa-ke, kunabantu abathile abanokuqonda okukhulu ngokuthi uthando lweqiniso lungaba yini:
1) “Uthando lweqiniso aluyona inkanuko eshesha kakhulu, ekhungathekisayo, nevuthayo. Ngokuphambene nalokho, luthule futhi lujulile. Lubheka ngale kwangaphandle futhi lukhangwa yizimfanelo kuphela. Luhlakaniphile futhi luyakwazi ukuhlukanisa, futhi ukuzinikela kwalo kungokoqobo futhi kuhlala njalo.” Ellen G. White
2) "Inkambo yothando lweqiniso ayikaze ihambe kahle." UWilliam Shakespeare
3) “Izindaba zothando lweqiniso azipheli.” URichard Bach
4) “Sifunda ukuthanda hhayi uma sithola umuntu ophelele, kodwa uma sifunda ukubona umuntu ongaphelele ngokuphelele.” USam Keen
5) “Uthando lweqiniso aluveli ngokushesha; luyinqubo ekhula njalo. Luvela ngemva kokuba senidlule ezinkingeni eziningi, lapho niye nahlupheka ndawonye, nakhala ndawonye, futhi nahleka ndawonye.” URicardo Montalbán.
6) “Uthando aluphathelene nokubukana, kodwa luphathelene nokubukana ndawonye ohlangothini olulodwa.” U-Antoine de Saint-Exupéry
7) “Uthando lweqiniso luhlala phakade, alunamkhawulo, futhi luhlala lufiswa. Luyalingana futhi lumsulwa, alunazo izibonakaliso zobudlova: lubonakala lumhlophe futhi luhlala lusemusha enhliziyweni.” UHonoré de Balzac
8) “Impilo ngumdlalo futhi uthando lweqiniso luyindebe.” URufus Wainwright
9) “Uthando lweqiniso alunabugovu. Lukulungele ukuzidela.” USadhu Vaswani
10) "Uphawu lokuthi asimthandi umuntu ukuthi asimniki okungcono kakhulu okukithi." - UPaul Claudel
11) “Ukuthanda kuwukuthola injabulo yakho enjabulweni yomunye umuntu.” UGottfried Leibniz
12) “Uthando lweqiniso luhlala phakade.” UJoseph B. Wirthlin
13) "Akukho okuthakazelisayo ngaphezu kwengxoxo yabathandi ababili abathule." U-Achille Tournier
Uma ukujabulele lesi sihloko, sicela ucabangele ukusabelana ngaso nabangani bakho nomndeni wakho. Ngiyabonga kakhulu ngokusekela kwakho. [mashshare]
Luyini uthando lweqiniso nokuthi ungaluqaphela kanjani?
Uthando lweqiniso alugcini nje othandweni lothando; luphinde luhlanganise uthando lomndeni, lobuzalwane, nolwe-platonic . Ngokuvamile lubonakala ngokuqina kwalo, ukuvumelana phakathi kwamazwi nezenzo , kanye nomuzwa wokukhula okwabiwe. Ngokungafani nokuthatheka, aluhlali lunomsindo noma luphuthuma ; ngokuvamile luthule, luhlala njalo, futhi lujulile.
- Ukwesekwa okungenamibandela: omunye umuntu ukhona ngawe ezikhathini zakho ezinhle nezimbi ngaphandle kwemibandela.
- Ukuncoma okunempilo: izimfanelo kanye nemizamo iyaziswa, hhayi into enhle ngaphandle kwesisekelo.
- Inkululeko nokuzimela: Ukuthanda akukona ukuba nempahla; kukhona indawo yamaphrojekthi omuntu.
- Ukuxhumana okuqotho: izidingo nemikhawulo kuvezwa ngenhlonipho.
- Ukubekezela nokunakekela: isibopho kondliwa ngokushukuma komzimba kwansuku zonke.
Yingakho uthando lweqiniso lungamelana nebanga, lunqobe izikhathi ezinzima, futhi luqine ngokuhamba kweminyaka . Akuwona umuzwa ongaguquki: luyasetshenziswa, lufundwa, futhi luyakhuliswa.
Imishwana yesimanje yezimo ezahlukene
Ibanga uthando
- Ibanga lilinganisa amakhilomitha, hhayi ukushaya kwenhliziyo; okwami ngilokhu ngibheke kuwe.
- Uma ungekho, ngiyakugona ngenkumbulo yami futhi ngikuqabule ngesifiso sami.
- Phakathi kwedolobha lakho nelami, ngakhe ibhuloho lemicabango.
- Asinakho ukwanga, sinezizathu eziningi kakhulu.
- Iwashi lami liyashesha nemilayezo yakho futhi lizola ngezwi lakho.
- Ukungabikho kwakho kunesisindo esincane uma ngikhumbula konke okusisekelayo.
- Imephu ithi kude; inhliziyo yami ithi: Cerca.
- Ngigcine ukuqabula ngesikhathi sokuphumula ukuze ngikunike wonke uma ubuya.
Imisho emide nejulile
- Akukhona nje lokho engikuzwelayo ngawe, yilokho ongimemela ukuba ngibe yikho: okungcono, isineke kakhulu, mina ngokwami.
- Nginawe, ngaqonda ukuthi uthando aluhlali lunomsindo; ngezinye izikhathi ukuthula okuhambisana nokusekela.
- Ukukukhetha nsuku zonke kuyindlela engiyithandayo yokukubonga ngempilo esabelana ngayo.
- Ngifuna ukuhamba eceleni kwakho: hhayi ngaphambili, hhayi ngemuva, ngejubane lakho, ngesikhathi sakho, emhlabeni wakho.
- Ukuhleka kwakho kungikhumbuze ukuthi nasekhaya kungaba umuntu.
- Uma ngiduka, ngibheke emehlweni enu; kulapho engafunda khona ukuzazi.
Ukuze uthole uthando oluhlala njalo
- Sengathi isikhathi singawususi umkhuba wethu wokukhethana.
- Uma kukhona okwaphakade, ngifuna eyakho iphile nawe.
- Masenze impilo yansuku zonke ibe yindawo yethu esiyintandokazi.
- Ukunakekela nokuthula kwakho ngizokwenza kube umgomo wami.
- Nginithanda ngezinhlelo kanye nangezingalindelekile.
- Ngiyethembisa ukuba yisiphephelo lapho umhlaba unzima kanye nomgubho lapho kunezizathu.
- Nawe, konke ukuvalelisa kuyisandulela sokugona okungcono.
- Siyiphrojekthi engijabulisa kakhulu.
Ukuzindla
- Uthando lweqiniso alujahi: khulile.
- Ungafuni ukupheleliswa; funa iqiniso kanye nentando yokunakekela.
- Ukuthanda wukufunda ulimi lomunye umuntu ungayeki ukukhuluma olwakho.
- Abakuthanda kahle bayakwenzela isikhala, hhayi ukukuvalela.
- Uthando luyavuthwa lapho lufunda ukucela intethelelo nokulungisa.
- Uma yengeza ukuzola nenjongo, mhlawumbe uthando.
Ifushane futhi iqondile
- Ikhaya lami linegama lakho.
- Ukuhleka kwakho: indawo yami ephephile.
- Ngikhetha wena. Namuhla nansuku zonke.
- Ukwanga kwakho kungichaza impilo.
- Umphefumulo wami uyala ukukuthanda.
- Into yami nawe ihlala njalo.
- Noma ngabe ukuphi, ngifuna ukuba khona.
- Nathi: isinqumo sami esihle.
- Nawe, konke kufanelana.
- Uyintandokazi yami ukuthula.
Amathiphu okunikezela nokwenza imishwana yakho ibe ngeyakho
- Umongo: phelezela umusho ngokuthinta (inothi ejazini, umyalezo omangazayo, izwi).
- Enza ngendlela oyifisayo: Engeza imininingwane eyabiwe: indawo, ihlaya langaphakathi, idethi ekhethekile ngaphandle kokuyisho ngokusobala.
- Ibhalansi: sebenzisa imishwana emide yezinsuku zemigubho kanye mfushane Okosuku nosuku.
- Ubuqiniso: Uma isisho esidumile singakukhulumisi, sibhale kabusha ngamazwi akho.
- Ezinkundleni zokuxhumana: Okuncane okuningi. Engeza isithombe esilula futhi uvumele umbhalo uphefumule.
Uthando lweqiniso lwakhiwa ngokunaka nokunakekela kwansuku zonke. Lawa mabinzana angaba yindawo yokuqala yokuveza lokho ozizwayo, kodwa okuqinisa ngempela isibopho yizenzo eziqhubekayo , ukulalela, kanye nesifiso sokukhula ndawonye. Uma inhloso iyiqiniso, amazwi athola indawo yawo.