Okuhlangenwe nakho

Impilo yakhiwe ngokuhlangenwe nakho, kukho konke lokho okuhlangenwe nakho okuvela endleleni futhi okukwenza ukuthi ulandele enye indlela noma enye. Ezinye zazo zikhethiwe futhi zingaba zizinhle noma zibe zimbi, ezinye zingalindelekile futhi zingavela nganoma yisiphi isikhathi. Noma kunjalo, konke okuhlangenwe nakho kunencazelo, ukufunda. Kokubili okushiya unenkumbulo enhle, kanye nalawo akulimazayo futhi akubangele ungakwazi ukwenza izinto ezithile. Ngoba, ekugcineni, ngasinye senziwa ngalezo zikhathi ezinqwabelana eminyakeni edlule.

Okuhlangenwe nakho kungadala ukuzilahla, ukuzizwa unecala kanye nemizwa ehlukahlukene emibi engasilimaza. Ngalesi sizathu, kunokuthambekela kokucasha ekujuleni kwenkumbulo lezo zimo ezisibangela amahloni noma ukuhlupheka ngezizathu ezahlukahlukene. Kodwa-ke, lokhu okuhlangenwe nakho kuyingxenye yempilo futhi ngandlela thile, kufanele isetshenziselwe ukuzithuthukisa.

Esikhundleni sokufihla leyo mizwa, singamukela ukuthi lokhu okuhlangenwe nakho kusimakile nokuthi siyilokho esiyikho ngenxa yabo. Funda uku ukuziyekisa umsebenzi kuyisihluthulelo ukuze inkumbulo yalezo zimo, zisinikeza umuzwa oqondile esikhundleni somubi. Isibonelo, uma enkumbulweni yakho unolwazi olukuzwise ubuhlungu obukhulu nokuthi yimemori kuphela ebangela ukuhlupheka, ungakuguqula kube yinto ofunde kuyo. Manje-ke, ukuhlupheka okwenziwa yilolu lwazi kuyancipha futhi, ekugcineni, kukusiza ukuthi uphume endleleni uqhubeke.

Abanye abantu banekhono lokusizakala ngalezi zimo futhi bafunde kokuhlangenwe nakho ngakunye kokuphila. Lokho wukuthi, bafunda ukukhombisa kabusha amava abo. ukuze babe amathuluzi okufunda, esikhundleni samatshe akuvimbela ekuqhubekeni phambili. Labo bantu abathatha isinqumo sokuhlanganyela lokhu okuhlangenwe nakho kwesinye isikhathi kubalulekile kwabanye abantu. Ngoba ngokuhlangenwe nakho kwabanye, umuntu angazizwa ekhonjwa futhi athole impendulo yemibuzo ethile okunzima ukuyiphendula.

Ngoba akufani ukubona ibhayisikobho wazi ukuthi omunye umuntu ngumlingiswa, kunokuzizwela kumuntu wokuqala. Yize okuhlangenwe nakho kufana, ukuzizwa ukhonjwe nomunye umuntu imvamisa kuyisixhumanisi, amandla okukuheha nakanjani. Uma lowo muntu ekwazile ukunqoba leso simo, nawe uzobe unjalo futhi sonke sibonga iqiniso lokuthi othile ukwazile ukuhlanganyela okuhlangenwe nakho kwabo.

Lokho nokunye okuningi ongakuthola kulawa makhasi, amava kanye nokuhlangenwe nakho kwabanye abantu okungakhuthaza noma kukhuthaze. Abantu abaningi basebenzisa okwenzeka kwabanye abantu ukwenza isenzo esithile. Ngoba ukungazi kudala ukungavikeleki, kepha ukwazi ukuthi omunye umuntu wenze okufanayo kusiza ekuqedeni isimanga, kukwenza uzizwe ukulungele kangcono okuzayo.

Konke lokho yilokho esikutshela khona kulesi sigaba, ngoba ukufunda kokuhlangenwe nakho kwakho, kanye nalokho okuphila ngabanye abantu, kuyinto ithuluzi lokufunda nokuziphendukela kwemvelo komuntu siqu. Uma okudingayo kungukukhula kwakho, uzazi kangcono ukuthi uzisebenzele futhi uthole uhlobo oluhle kakhulu lwakho, indlela iyafunda.

Funda ukwazisa izingqinamba ezithile onazo empilweni nokuthi kungenzeka ungazi ukuthi zibaluleke kangakanani. Funda ukuzazisa, sebenzela ukuzithanda, ubuntu, izici ezinhle ezikwenza uvelele, kuwumsebenzi oyinkimbinkimbi ongapheli.

Okuhlangenwe nakho kwakho kunenani elithile lempilo yakho, sikufundisa ukuthi uzwisise ezinye zazo ukuze uzamukele njengengxenye yakho. Ngoba kulapho kuphela lapho uzozamukela njengoba unjalo futhi uzokwazi ukuthuthukisa lezo zici ongazizwa wanelisekile ngazo ngokuphelele.