Yize incwadi yakhe, Indoda icabanga kanjani, iye yakhuthaza izigidi zabantu emhlabeni jikelele futhi kube nomthelela omkhulu embonini yokuzisiza, kuncane kakhulu okwaziwayo ngombhali wayo, uJames Allen.
Wazalelwa eLeicester, eNgilandi, futhi wasebenza njengonobhala womuntu siqu kumphathi wenhlangano enkulu kwaze kwaba sekuqaleni kwekhulu lama-20. Lapho eneminyaka engu-38 "umhlalaphansi»wasuka nomkakhe baya e Indlu encane e-Ilfracombe, eNgilandi. Wabhala okunye 20 iyasebenza ngaphambi kokufa ekuqaleni kweminyaka engama-48.
U-Allen wayefuna ukuzithuthukisa, ajabule, futhi azi kahle zonke izimfanelo ezinhle. Impilo yakhe yaba wukufuna wenjabulo kumuntu emhlabeni. U-Allen uphikelela emandleni omuntu yakha esakho umlingiswa futhi udale eyakho injabulo. Umcabango nesimilo kukodwa.
Indoda icabanga kanjani ithonye ababhali abaningi bangaleso sikhathi njengoNorman Vincent Peale, uDenis Waitley no Tony Robbins, phakathi kwabanye. "Umthamo wakhe omncane," njengoba wawubiza kanjalo, uhunyushelwe ezilimini ezinhlanu ezinkulu, kukhuthaza izigidi zabafundi. U-Allen usitshela ukuthi ukucabanga kuholela kanjani esenzweniUmbhali usikhombisa indlela yokuguqula amaphupho ethu abe ngokoqobo... Ifilosofi yakhe ilethe impumelelo ezigidini zabantu.
Ungayithenga ku-Amazon ngokulandela lesi sixhumanisi. Uma uthenga uhlelo oluphathekayo, hlola inqubomgomo yokubuyisela yomthengisi esigabeni esithi "Okuthengisiwe" sesitolo.
Uma uthanda, nakhu ke inguqulo yayo ye-audiobook:
Ikhuluma ngani le ncwadi futhi kungani ibalulekile?
I-thesis emaphakathi yomsebenzi icacile: imicabango yakho ilolonga iqiniso lakho. U-Allen uhlanganisa lo mbono ngomunye wemigqa yakhe ecashunwa kakhulu: "Indoda iyilokho ekucabangayo, uhlamvu lwakhe luyingqikithi yayo yonke imicabango yakhe." Nge-prose emfishane, engagcwalisi, le ncwadi igqama ngayo ukuhlakanipha okusebenzayo nokufingqiwe lokho kufundwa ngesikhathi esifushane futhi kubhekwe iminyaka.
Ngaphandle kokukhula komuntu siqu, umbhalo uhlanganyela engxoxweni nemisinga efana stoicism: hlakulela ukuzola, thatha umthwalo wemfanelo, futhi uguqule izithiyo zibe izinto zokwakha amandla. Ukuzola, ngokusho kuka-Allen, kuvela ekuqondeni ubudlelwano bembangela-mphumela phakathi kwesikucabangayo nesikuphilayo.
Imibono esemqoka ethuthukisa ithisisi
UkuzakhelaEmcabangweni wezikhali, sikha "amathuluzi" ukwakha noma "izikhali" ukuze sizicekele phansi. Khetha bese usebenzisa ukucabanga okulungile kuphakamisa uhlamvu; ukuyisebenzisa kabi kuyayehlisa isithunzi.
Inkosi yaseNgadini: Ingqondo iyingadi. Uma ungahlwanyeli imbewu ewusizo, kuyokhula ukhula. Ukufunda, ukuzindla, nokukhetha indlela odla ngayo engqondweni kufana nokunisela ngamanzi ahlanzekile.
Ubulungiswa obufihliwe: yeka ukusola ubheke ukufunda kukho konke ukukhubekaZonke izimo ziqukethe imbewu yentuthuko uma ulungisa ukuhumusha kwakho nesenzo sakho.
Ngaphandle kwenkambo emisiwe: Ukungabi nenhloso a i-viceUkugxila okumaphakathi kugxilisa amandla, kunciphisa ukwesaba, futhi kuvimbele ukukhukhuleka kwengqondo.
Umsebenzi ophakeme: vula inhloso esemthethweni ibe ngeyakho maphakathi ukunakwa kuqinisa umlingiswa futhi uhlele imicabango, imikhuba kanye nemiphumela.
Isakhiwo nezahluko ezibalulekile
Incwadi ngokuqhubekayo ihlanganisa izihloko ezifana nalezi Umcabango kanye nesimilo; umphumela womcabango ku izimo, lo impilo nomzimba; Umcabango nenjongo; isici sokucabanga ku uphumelele; Imibono nemibono; kanye ne UkuthulaLesi sakhiwo esifushane sivumela ukufunda ngokushesha nokufunda kabusha ngokucophelela, isahluko ngesahluko.
Izicelo ezisebenzayo ezisheshayo
- Hlola inkhulumomphendvulwano yakho yangaphakathi: Khomba imicabango ephindaphindayo futhi uyihlukanise njengewusizo noma engenamsebenzi.
- Chaza injongo: into ekulethela injabulo, ingenzeka, futhi isebenzisa amakhono akho.
- Nakekela ingadi yakho yengqondo: Yehlisa umsindo wolwazi futhi wengeze ukufundwa nomsindo ophakamisa indlela yakho yokunquma.
- Funda ekuhlulekeni: Bhala phansi okwenzekile, okufundile, nalokho ozokwenza ngokuhlukile ngesikhathi esizayo.
- Yabelana ngombono encwadini nothile: ukufundisa kuhlanganisa ukuqonda.
Labo abasebenzise le mibono bayavumelana ngokubaluleka kwabo okungaphelelwa isikhathi: cabanga ngenhloso, ukwenza ngokufanele, kanye nokuhlakulela ukuthula kwakha ukuphila okubumbene futhi okuphumelelayo. Lo mthamo omncane, ngaphandle kokuhlotshiswa okungadingekile, unikeza uhlaka olunamandla lokuguqula imibono emikhubeni kanye nemikhuba lapho uya khona.