Uma sikhuluma ngokusiza abanye, sivame ukucabanga ukuthi izinhloso ezinhle zingaphezu kokwanele. Kodwa-ke, kukhona igebe elikhulu phakathi kokufuna nje ukusiza kanye nokwazi ubuciko bokwenza okuhle ngempumelelo, ngokuqonda, nangomusa, ukuguqula hhayi nje izimpilo zabanye kodwa nezethu.
Ukuqinisekisa ukuthi izenzo zethu zinomthelela wangempela kudinga inqubo yokufunda ethuthuka kusukela emfundisweni kuya ekuqondeni komuntu siqu. Akukhona nje ukunikeza lokho esikusele, kodwa mayelana nokuthuthukisa isimo sengqondo sokuthatha isinyathelo nekhono esisivumela ukuba sikhonze umphakathi ngenhloso kanye nobuhle bobungcweti nobuntu.
Isitebhisi sokufunda: Ukwazi, Ukwazi Ukuthi Ungakwenza Kanjani, Nokwazi Ukuthi Ungakwenza Kanjani Kahle
Ukuze sifinyelele ukugqwesa kunoma yimuphi umkhakha, kungaba ngowobungcweti, wezemfundo, noma wezenhlalo, kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi ulwazi lutholakala ngezigaba. Asikwazi ukweqa izinyathelo uma sifuna umthelela wethu uhlale isikhathi eside.
- Ulwazi: Lesi yisigaba sokuqala lapho siqoqa khona idatha nolwazi lwethiyori. Emfundweni yendabuko, sasivame ukuma lapha, sikholelwa ukuthi ukwazi ithiyori kwanele. Kodwa ezweni langempela, Ulwazi oluhlanzekile alusenzi sibe nekhonoKuyisisekelo kuphela lapho sizokwakha khona konke okunye.
- Yazi kanjani: Yilapho imfundiso iqala khona. Ngokuzijwayeza njalo nokuphindaphinda, sifaka lokho esikufundile ngaphakathi. Kufana nalapho sifunda izibalo: singayiqonda incazelo yothisha, kodwa asikwazi ukuxazulula inkinga size... sizijwayeza kaninginingi kuze kube yilapho inqubo iba yendalo.
- Ukwazi Ukukwenza Kahle: Leli yizinga eliphakeme kakhulu. Akubhekiseli nje ekubeni uchwepheshe wezobuchwepheshe ophinde umsebenzi izikhathi eziningi, kodwa kunalokho kuhlanganisa ubukhulu bokuziphatha, ubuhle kanye nobenhlaloUkwazi ukwenza into kahle kuhilela ukukhetha inketho efanele ngokokuziphatha, ukwenza umsebenzi ngenjabulo nangesitayela, futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke, ukwenza umsebenzi wethu ube lula kulabo abasizungezile.
Isibonelo esicacile salokhu yindawo yokusebenza. Umuntu owaziyo ukwenza umsebenzi wakhe kodwa engazi ukuthi angakwenza kanjani kahle angase athumele imibiko yakhe ngesikhathi, kodwa ayishiye ingahlelekile. Ngokuphambene nalokho, umuntu owaziyo ukwenza izinto kahle uhlela ulwazi ngendlela yokuthi ozakwabo kanye nabasebenzi abasekelayo bakwazi ukusebenza kahle, okubonisa ukuthi intuthuko yomuntu siqu ihlobene nenhlalakahle yokubambisana.
Ukuzithandela njengesikole sokuphila
Ukukhonza abanye, ikakhulukazi ngokuzithandela, kungenye yezindlela ezinhle kakhulu zokusebenzisa le mibono. Abantu abaningi bangena ezweni lokuzithandela bekholelwa ukuthi banguthisha oze ukuzosindisa abanye, kodwa ngokushesha bathola iqiniso elimangalisayo: isisebenzi sokuzithandela yisona esigcina sithole.
Kule nqubo, umsizi uba ngumfundi futhi uthola ukuthi yilabo abahluphekayo abaguqula izinhliziyo zabo ngempela . Ukuzithandela akufanele kube umsebenzi okhululekile lapho sinikela ngezingubo ezindala noma izinhlamvu zemali esingazidingi, kodwa kunalokho kube umsebenzi wokukhathalela abanye ngeqiniso , lapho silalela, siphelezela, futhi sibeka izidingo zabanye ngaphambi kwezethu, njengomuntu onikeza ukwesekwa kochwepheshe nobuntu ngesikhathi sokushonelwa .
Ukuzikhandla ngomusa: Ukufuna ithuba
Ngezinye izikhathi senza iphutha lokucabanga ukuthi ukwenza okuhle kumane nje kuphendula isicelo sosizo esisifikelayo. Kodwa-ke, ukuphana kwangempela kulele ekuthatheni isinyathelo . Akufanele silinde isidingo sokuvela phambi kwamehlo ethu, kodwa kufanele siphume ngenkuthalo siyofuna labo abadinga umusa noma ukwesekwa.
Uma sithatha izibonelo eziseBhayibhelini njengeNkosi uDavide noMefibosheti njengereferensi, sibona ukuthi isihluthulelo sisekubuzeni ngenkuthalo ukuthi ubani odinga usizo. Lesi simo sengqondo esihlosiwe yisona esenza umehluko phakathi komusa ongenzi lutho kanye nokuzinikela okusebenzayo nokuzinikela ekuthuthukiseni umphakathi.
Inkinga yenhloso nomvuzo
Kuvamile ukuthi ukungabaza ngobumsulwa bezinhloso zethu kuphakame lapho sihlola ngokujulile ngokomoya. Abanye bayazibuza ukuthi ukwenza okuhle ukujabulisa amandla aphezulu noma ukulindela umvuzo waphezulu kwenza isenzo sibe yiphutha. Kodwa-ke, kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi okuhle kuyinani eliqondile nokuthi isifiso sokuzivumelanisa nalokho okulungile asikuchithi ubuhle besenzo.
Isihluthulelo ukungavumeli ubugovu noma ukuphishekela ukuqashelwa kufiphaze ukwahlulela kwethu. Umgomo kufanele uhlale uzuzisa abanye , siqonde ukuthi ukwaneliseka komuntu siqu noma ngokomoya kuyimiphumela yemvelo, kodwa hhayi amandla ayinhloko ashukumisayo.
Amathuluzi okukala ukukhula kwethu komuntu siqu
Kulabo abafisa ukuhlola intuthuko yabo emakhonweni abantu kanye namakhono okuxhumana nabantu, kunezindlela ezibonakalayo eziwusizo kakhulu, njenge- Spider Web . Leli thuluzi liqukethe ukudweba ama-radii amelela amakhono ahlukene bese libanika amaphuzu kusukela ku-1 kuya ku-4.
Ngokumaka izinga lethu lokuqala nokuliqhathanisa nezinga elifinyelelwe ngemva kwenkonzo noma ulwazi lomsebenzi, singabona ngeso lengqondo ukuthi sandise kanjani ikhono lethu lokusiza . Ngokubona ukuthi yiziphi izindawo okudingeka siziqinise, singasuka ekwazini nje siye ekwazini ukuthi singenza kanjani kahle , siguqule ukukhula kwethu kube imephu ebonakalayo nebonakalayo.
Ukuhlanganisa ubuchwepheshe bezobuchwepheshe nokuzwela kwabantu kanye nokusebenza ngokuzikhandla kusenza sikwazi ukufeza ukwaneliseka kwangempela. Ngokubeka eceleni ukuzikhukhumeza nokufuna ngenkuthalo inhlalakahle yabanye, siguqula ubuntu bethu futhi sinikeza isandla ekudaleni indawo lapho ubuhle nomusa kuhambisana khona ukuthuthukisa ukuvumelana komphakathi.